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An ill wind

‘We were lucky’

 
 
 

It was miraculous, said Ruth Gafni, head of Solomon Schechter Day School of Bergen County in New Milford. The town was “hit hard” over the weekend, she said, trees fell near the school, and the electricity went out. But the school was unscathed.

Schechter had scheduled parent-teacher conferences fot Sunday, and they were postponed to Monday.

On Tuesday, students came to school and enjoyed hot lunches, and the staff made sure everyone had a safe place to stay. “And the kids helped each other,” she said.

“It was miraculous,” she repeated.

Other Jewish day schools in the area also reported being spared.

Considering how hard Teaneck was hit, said Stanley Fischman, director of general studies at Ben Porat Yosef, in Paramus, his school was fortunate in not having any damage. (The Torah Academy of Bergen County, in Teaneck, was closed on Monday.)

Ben Porat Yosef is close to Route 4, and the exit to the street was temporarily closed because of a downed power line.

Some students lived in homes without electricity or heat, so the school gave them hot lunches.

At the Sinai Schools, headquartered in Teaneck, the administrative offices were closed Monday through Wednesday, and classes were not held on Monday and Tuesday. “It was a challenge, but a lot of people worked hard and now we’re up and running,” said Laurette Rothwachs, the dean.

“We were lucky,” said Elaine Weitzman, executive director of The Frisch School, an orthodox co-ed school in Paramus. Some traffic signs on campus came down, the IT system and the electricity went out, and water had to be boiled to be drinkable, she said. But otherwise things were OK.

Still, the school had a special problem: Scholastic Aptitude Tests had been scheduled for Sunday, along with an annual arts evening.

“We had to cancel both,” said Weitzman, “and that affected a lot of students.” Now the school must do some rescheduling.

The Paramus police asked that the school be closed on Monday.

Many students come from Bergen County, she went on, where several communities were especially “hard hit.” With no power at home, “some students were disoriented,” she said. Some stayed in the homes of friends or relatives who did have power.

“We’re now back in business,” she said.

Enid Anziska, executive director of Yeshivat Noam in Paramus, said, “We were relatively unscathed. We had no real damage, no real flooding. It’s not a very exciting story. We’re thankful everyone was safe.”

A tree did fall, but it “fell well,” she said, not landing on the school or in the parking lot but on unoccupied land.

The school was closed on Monday, when some power went out, but the power came back quickly.

“We were more affected by what was happening in Paramus,” she said, where there was no drinking water or electricity, and traffic lights weren’t working. Students were asked to bring in their own water bottles.

Two men lost their lives in the storm, Anziska noted, and the school’s rabbi, Chaim Hagler, phoned the principal of the school attended by their children, to offer counseling or other help.

Yeshivat Noam, like other day schools, does have an emergency plan in place, she said, and conducts regular fire drills.

What happened at Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls, in Teaneck? “Not much,” said Rachel Feldman, the administrator. Because Teaneck had declared a state of emergency, the school did close on Monday, but did not lose power.

 

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A crisis in our own backyard

Jewish groups across North Jersey rallied this week to provide what aid they could to the thousands left without power after this weekend’s nor’easter.

“Unfortunately, over the past several months we’ve had crises in Haiti and Chile and now we have a crisis right here in our own backyard,” said Howard Charish, executive vice president of UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey.

The federation last year created its economic crisis fund to help those hurt by the economy. Through Jewish Family Service of North Jersey in Wayne and Jewish Family Service of Bergen and North Hudson in Teaneck, UJA-NNJ has opened the fund to aid those in need after the storm. But even as people regained power and began to assess damages this week, Charish said that the full extent and how much aid is needed won’t be known for a few more weeks.

 
 

Whirlwind week for JCC

Avi Lewinson, back on Tuesday from surveying the storm’s detritus at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly, strove for some rueful humor. One good thing about Saturday’s storm, the JCC’s executive director told The Jewish Standard, was that “it forces you to purge right before Pesach.”

But he quickly turned serious, noting that eight people had been killed during the punishing wind and rainstorm, two of them from Teaneck. (See related story.) He did not know the area men personally, he added, “but we’re all brothers. One Jew for another.”

The JCC was up and running on Thursday, but the epic storm required an epic cleanup.

 
 

A matter of faith?

Area rabbis ponder last week’s tragedy

Rabbi David Fine, religious leader of Temple Israel & Jewish Community Center in Ridgewood, recalls a book he was required to read in high school.

“The Bridge of San Luis Rey,” by Thornton Wilder, tells the story of several people who die in the collapse of a suspension bridge in Peru. A friar who witnessed the event tries to make sense of it, searching for some kind of cosmic reason for the tragedy.

“People always try to find explanations,” said Fine, who spoke to The Jewish Standard by cell phone Tuesday, since the synagogue’s telephone lines were still down because of the storm. But, he added, even after reading the book, he walked away unconvinced of a cosmic cause, concluding that the bridge collapse was simply an accident.

 
 

Community mourns deaths and struggles to recover

Teaneck was in mourning this week for Ovadia Mussaffi and Lawrence Krause, killed by a falling tree during Saturday night’s nor’easter as they walked home from shul after Shabbat.

As mourners gathered in the men’s homes for shiva this week, friends and family described both as friendly, sweet, and generous. Mussaffi, 54, is survived by his wife, Susan, and their four children. Krause, 49, is survived by his wife, Zahava, and six children, including a six-week-old daughter.

 
 
 
 
 
 
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Five months in Kenya

Changing lives for the better — including her own

When you step off a 15-hour plane ride and face the stark realization that you will be without running water, a flushing toilet, electricity, a refrigerator, a microwave, or air conditioning for the next five months, that is when you know you have stepped out of your comfort zone. When you realize that you are unexpectedly the only white person in the village in which you will be living, let alone the only Jew (my coworker thought we were extinct), that is when you know your comfort zone is worlds away.

This is how I spent much of the last half-year, and I loved it. You might think I am crazy, and I will not disagree with you. However, when you throw yourself into a culture half-a-world away from your own, forcing you to challenge your own beliefs, you live in constant fascination at how the world operates so smoothly — after you learn to shower properly with a bucket, milk a cow, slaughter a chicken, and cook over a wood-burning fire, that is.

 

Focus on European Jewry

Belgium: One nation, divided

Few Jewish couples define their marriage as “mixed” just because bride and groom were born and raised 30 miles apart in the same country.

Linda and Bernard Levy, however, live in Belgium, a country whose long experiment in fusing two distinct cultures recently has been showing signs of breakdown. With the Dutch-speaking Flemish half of the country increasingly at odds with the French-speaking part, Belgium’s corresponding Jewish communities are finding themselves at loggerheads, as well.

Linda was born in Antwerp, the capital of Flanders in the self-governing Flemish region. She rarely uses Flemish (similar to Dutch), the language of her youth, since she married Bernard, a Francophone from Brussels. They live just outside Brussels with their three children.

 

Mohammed Hameeduddin: Emphasizing commonality is key

As a long-time resident who is completing his first two-year term as mayor of Teaneck and was decisively re-elected to his third council term on Tuesday, Mohammed Hameeduddin has come to understand and revel in the commonalities between his Muslim community and the Jewish community which he serves, and which helped elect him.

Being on the campaign trail — such as it was, in the run-up to this past Tuesday’s municipal’s elections — highlighted one aspect of that commonality.

“The Jewish people of Teaneck are very similar to the Muslim community, because when you walk in, the first thing everybody makes sure to ask is ‘Did you eat?’ That’s the first question every grandmother asks. It’s very similar if you walk into a Muslim household from south Asia,” says Hameeduddin, whose parents came to America from India in the late 1960s.

 

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Shirah still going strong at 18

Community chorus looks to the future

As Shirah, the Community Chorus at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, prepares to celebrate its 18th year with a gala concert on June 10, founding director and conductor Matthew Lazar says he is proud of what the group represents.

“Shirah is a community,” said Lazar, known to his friends as Mati.

“It’s a group of people who care about each other, making music together, and expressing their Jewish identity together. Whatever differences there might be, when we make music together, we are one entity and one people.”

 

Shirah still going strong at 18

Matthew “Mati” Lazar’s passion for Jewish music will be showcased June 1-2 when he visits Teaneck’s Congregaton Beth Sholom as scholar-in-residence.

Adina Avery-Grossman, a member of the congregation who sits on the board of the Zamir Choral Foundation, knows Lazar well.

“My high school-age daughter sang for three years with HaZamir,” she explained, talking about the teenager’s participation in the international Jewish high school choir founded by Lazar.

The Bergen County chapter meets at Beth Sholom.

“It was a spectacular experience for my daughter, choral music of the highest standards.”

 

The ultimate Top Ten list

Myths and misperceptions surround ‘the Ten’

Last week, a U.S. district court judge sitting in Roanoke, Va., made an extraordinary suggestion about the document commonly referred to as “The Ten Commandments.” He suggested it be cut to six. He appointed another judge to oversee negotiations to accomplish that goal.

The case involves Narrows High School in Narrows, Va., a part of the Giles County school district, which is the actual defendant in the case. After Narrows High put up a display of “The Ten Commandments,” the American Civil Liberties Union objected and brought the case to the U.S. District Court in Roanoke. It cited the separation clause of the First Amendment, as well as a number of federal court decisions, as its reasons.

 
 
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