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More than kashrut

High cost of observance opens conference

 
 
 
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From left, Nachum Segal, David Greenfield, and William Rapfogel discuss the high cost of an Orthodox lifestyle in the opening session of the OU national convention. Josh Lipowsky

Day-school tuition: At least $13,000 a year per child.

Kosher chicken: $2 to $3 more per pound than non-kosher chicken.

Kippot, tzitzit, tallitot, sheitels, and regular dry cleaning for these and other Shabbat and holiday clothes: You don’t want to think about it.

The cost of Jewish living is one of the most talked-about topics in the community, said Nachum Segal, host of the radio show JM in the AM, who moderated a panel on the subject on Saturday night to kick off the Orthodox Union’s national convention. Before a crowd of about 400 at Teaneck’s Cong. Keter Torah, Segal questioned a panel of political and communal leaders about why costs have gotten out of control and what can be done.

The problem, according to panelist Rabbi Ephraim Buchwald, founder and director of the National Jewish Outreach Program, is how the Jewish community arranges its priorities, which he said, are “out of whack.” While this is the “most prosperous” and “blessed” age of Judaism, the community spends too many resources on repetitive services — he questioned the need for multi-million-dollar budgets for the Anti-Defamation League, the Simon Weisenthal Center, and other organizations with similar goals — and a focus on luxuries rather than necessities.

“Do we really need kosher Kobe beef at $75 a pound? Do we need to spend $100 million a year on Pesach vacations? We’ve lost our perspective,” he said.

Margy-Ruth Davis, vice president of Perry Davis Associates, a New York consulting firm focused on community and institutional leadership, agreed. The American dream is to have it all, and many in the Orthodox community want to have what their non-observant peers have, she said.

“In some neighborhoods, keeping up with the Joneses is a blood sport,” she said.

One family Davis knows, with special-needs children, could not afford the services they needed in a day school and enrolled their children in public schools. They supplemented that education with heavy Jewish tutoring and are happy with their choice, she said, but this is not for everybody. Jewish education should be the responsibility of the entire Jewish community, Davis said.

Public school is not an option, said panelist David Greenfield, a member of the New York City Council who represents a district in Brooklyn.

“The average American family is tightening their belts,” he said. “For us as Orthodox Jews, it’s very difficult to tighten our belts in the same way. Private school is not a luxury for our families, it’s a basic necessity.”

Schools should encourage families to become politically involved and require parents to register to vote when registering their children for school, Greenfield said. Voting then has to take place with a single message from an organized community, he said; in the case of the Orthodox community, that message should be supporting yeshivas.

“In this system, whoever’s the most organized gets the most results,” he said. “Sadly, the one group that’s not organized is yeshiva parents.”

A new framework is needed, said panelist William Rapfogel, CEO of the Metropolitan Council on Jewish Poverty. He noted that more middle-class families are coming to his organization for help, and their two greatest expenses are education and housing. He urged the OU to appoint a commission to create new ideas to solve the tuition crisis and advocate for the community.

“We have to challenge the absolute wisdom of past practices,” he said. “We have to make sure that when we advocate, we advocate with a collective voice.”

“Government is not the solution but there is no solution without government,” Greenfield said, urging the community to set short-, medium-, and long-term goals.

“This is a communal crisis; everybody has a responsibility,” he said. “If people can produce votes, they can move elected officials. If a community isn’t doing the minimum possible, they’re not going to achieve their goals.”

 

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Teaneck’s Katz becomes new OU president

When Rabbi Simcha Katz arrived at the Orthodox Union’s New York offices on Monday, the first thing he did was turn on the lights. Newly installed as the organization’s 13th president, Teaneck resident Katz has plans to shine a light on what he sees as the two biggest threats to the Jewish community: Tuition costs and assimilation.

The father of Teaneck councilman and businessman Elie Katz, Simcha Katz was inaugurated as president on Sunday during the OU’s national convention in Woodcliff Lake.

In September, Stephen Savitsky, then the OU’s president, asked Katz about assuming the organization’s leadership. Katz, a retired businessman who had spent the past five years as chair of the OU’s kashrut division and many more years working in the division with its CEO, Rabbi Menachem Genack of Englewood, was reluctant about making the time commitment.

 
 

OU convention in North Jersey spotlights programs, calls for action

The Orthodox Union is more than just that little OU symbol on your can of baked beans, and that message was the focus on the OU’s biennial convention over the weekend in Woodcliff Lake.

More than 700 people from across the country came out to the Hilton in Woodcliff Lake, where more than 25 sessions during Sunday’s one-day conference on Jewish life focused on Torah, synagogue life, and communal life. The OU also installed its new president, Rabbi Simcha Katz of Teaneck, and passed a series of resolutions to guide the organization through the next two years.

 
 
 
 

Fierce grace

Local head of Rabbis Without Borders makes it onto 36 most inspirational list

Black fire on white fire.

That’s the Torah. Whether you believe it to be dictated to Moshe by God at Sinai, put together later by divinely inspired scribes, or completely human-made, a product of its time and place, you know it to be unchanging, open perhaps to interpretation, but certainly not to editing or revision.

That’s the Torah with a capital T.

Then there is the torah, with a lower-case t. That’s the perhaps divinely inspired wisdom, refracted through a purely and therefore unique lens, that lies often dormant within each of us.

 

Up court and personal

Camp Ramah created lasting ties; tragedy tightened them

Two realities intersected at a basketball game in Manhattan’s Chelsea Piers on Sunday, creating its own third reality.

Reality 1 — Camp Ramah in the Berkshires, the Conservative movement’s local summer camp, creates a feeling of intense loyalty to each other, as well as to Jewish life, in many of its alumni. Those bonds connect various former campers in different ways. One of those ways is basketball. Some Ramah alums meet in far western Manhattan every Sunday from October through April to play basketball through the Ramah Basketball Association.

Reality 2 — Eric Steinthal, who grew up in Haworth, where his parents, Marilyn and Bruce, still live, died suddenly of a brain aneurysm on March 17, 2012. He was a Ramah alum and a former RBA commissioner. He was 31 years old when he died.

 

Bottling the Shoah

Leonia psychologist-artist reveals truths in glass-

Bottle.

It’s a simple word, isn’t it? As everyone knows, it is mainly a noun — a container, generally with a long neck, usually used to hold liquids.

It’s also a verb — “to bottle” is to place something inside one of those containers.

It takes no particular act of imagination to use the word, or the object it represents. It does take imagination to see it as a symbol, a kind of blank slate, representing something else.

 

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Going for gold

There are some things that most of us never have and never will experience. We can imagine what it would feel like, but we never will really know.

One of those things has to be entering a huge arena and jumping, dancing, twirling, flying, seemingly beyond gravity’s pull. For about a minute and a half. To music. In front of thousands of people, clapping for you, and tens of millions more sitting in their living rooms all across the world watching you. Judging you. At the Olympics.

You’re very young when you do this — just 18. It’s the Summer Games in London last summer. You do very well in all your competitions — and you get the gold in your last one, the floor program. You are the first American woman to do this. You also win a bronze medal for your work on the balance beam. You are also the team captain, and the whole team wins the overall gold, as well.

 

Going for gold

It’s ‘Aly Oop’ for Eden

There are a lot of differences between Carnegie Hall and an Olympic stadium, but when you ask your GPS how to get to either one, you get the same directions.

Practice.

It helps if you start that practice when you are really young. In other words, if you want even a chance to become Aly Raisman, first you have to work very hard to turn yourself into Eden Glick.

 

Going for gold

Gymnastics at the JCC

The Kaplan JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly has a gymnastics program, but it is not a training program for competitions, according to Joe Agosto, the JCC’s athletics director.

Twenty to 30 children — overwhelmingly girls — participate in the program. The 3- to 5-year-olds do tumbling; the older ones practice rhythmic gymnastics. “It’s a combination of gymnastics and dance,” Agosto said.

 
 
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