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Tu b’Av — Jews in the mood for love

A new take on an ancient tradition

 
 
 

Jennie Rivlin Roberts, founder of the Jewish retail site ModernTribe.com, said she learned about Tu b’Av last year through Lisa Alcalay Klug, author of “Cool Jew: The Ultimate Guide for Every Member of the Tribe.”

Together, Roberts and Klug — who this year are co-sponsoring a Tu b’Av “LoveFest” in Los Angeles featuring a variety of Jewish performers — have created a contest called the “Cool Jew Love Day Giveaway.”

Describing Tu b’Av as “an annual Jewish celebration of sweethearts,” the two have tapped “nine cool Jews and Jewish businesses” to participate in the project, Roberts told The Jewish Standard, describing them as “independent Jewish artists and entrepreneurs who love being Jewish and keeping Jewish traditions alive, meaningful, and fun.”

While the two women note that Tu b’Av is more likely to be celebrated today in clubs and dance halls than in vineyards, they point to the continuity in “coming together to celebrate our passion and enthusiasm for our rich culture.”

“People are hungry for this kind of fresh, Jewish stuff,” said Roberts. “For many of us, ‘Jewish American Pop Culture’ is a very strong way people connect to Judaism and other Jews.” Added Klug, “Celebrating Jewish innovation and our love of Judaism is a natural extension of the original spirit of Tu b’Av.”

The two giveaway prize packages include music CDs, DVDs, kosher Mashuga Nuts, apparel, Roberts’ “No Limit Texas Driedel” game, and copies of Klug’s book, “Cool Jew.” To enter the contest, visit blog.moderntribe.com and answer the question, “What do you love about being Jewish?”

 

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Time for a Jewish Couples Hall of Fame

A big, round August moon will be hanging in the sky the night of Aug. 4, as Jews begin to celebrate the little-known and ancient Jewish holiday of love.

Under this shining moon of love and dedication, I propose a new museum.

Tu b’Av — the 15th day of the Hebrew month of Av, six days after the fast of Tisha b’Av — dates back to the Temple times when Jewish maidens would put on white garments and go out into the fields in search of husbands.

 
 

Many Jews are uncomfortable with Valentine’s Day — with its pagan and Christian origins — and refrain from using it to send expressions of love. Happily, Jews have other opportunities to do just that.

The Mishnah (Ta’anit 4:8) relates that one of the two most joyous days in ancient Israel was the 15th day of Av, Tu b’Av. What happened on that day? “The daughters of Jerusalem went out in white garments ... dancing in the vineyards. And what did they say? ‘Young men, look up and see what you will choose for yourself. Look not at beauty but at family....’”

 
 
 
 
 
 
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‘Joyful, jubilant,’ and sorely missed

A young woman’s death shakes North Jersey communities

On April 29, 22-year-old Stephanie Prezant of Haworth lost her life in a rock-climbing accident in upstate New York. While the community, however, is mourning the loss of this beloved young woman — whose safety equipment failed while climbing the Trapps Cliff area of the Mohonk Preserve — they also are remembering the joy she brought to others.

“She was very funny, always trying to make people laugh,” said longtime friend Anna Kaminsky, from Englewood Cliffs. “I’m glad that at the funeral, people were able to capture that.”

Conducted by Rabbi Mordecai Shain, executive director of Lubavitch on the Palisades, the funeral was held on May 1 at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades.

 

He saw a need

Outdoor sanctuary earns Ben Sagerman an Eagle Badge

If leadership means to see a problem where no one else does, and then take the initiative to solve it, Ben Sagerman is definitely a leader.

The 17-year-old high school junior loved the experience of outdoor prayer he experienced at the Union for Reform Judaism’s Camp Eisner — and wanted to make that experience possible for his fellow congregants at Temple Avodat Shalom in River Edge.

So he built an outdoor sanctuary, a small ampitheater, in an empty space on Avodat Shalom’s property.

 

Tending to the liberators

March of Living honors vets, with N.J. doctor in tow

Englewood resident Dr. David Arbit has spent much of his adult life hearing about the Shoah.

“My father-in-law is a survivor,” says the physician, who practices in Fair Lawn. “At every bar- or bat mitzvah, he would get up and speak about his experiences.”

Now, however, Arbit can add many more firsthand accounts to those he already knows. As the physician designated by the March of the Living program to accompany this year’s honorees — some 16 former U.S. servicemen who were among the first to arrive at Europe’s many concentration camps during World War II — the doctor says he now has both new information and detailed verification of his father-in-law’s stories.

 

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“You’re looking at 40 to 50 years in prison,” said Molinelli, addressing the “person or persons who are doing this act” at a Wednesday afternoon press conference.

“Turn yourself in and end this now,” he said. “We will ultimately solve this crime and make arrests.”

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