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Print![]() | Jack Rosenfeld and Amram Meir Photos by Jeff Karg |
November 2009:
Jack Rosenfeld hasn’t seen or heard from his childhood friend Amram Meir since they arrived together at Mauthausen concentration camp in 1945. He has no idea if he is alive.
August 2010:
The two men reunite in Teaneck.
Rosenfeld and Meir recall their last days together as if they were yesterday.
“The march to Mauthausen started out at about 300 Jews, boys like me, about 15, 16, 17,” Meir said. “It grew. They brought in more [Jews from the Russian front] and at the end we were 6,000.”
As they walked, they passed a stream, which Rosenfeld recalled was filled with tallitot, tefillin, and bodies. Trudging through the rain, Meir fell to the ground, crying to his friends that he cannot go on.
“There was a point I said I can’t take it anymore,” he said. “It was raining, we didn’t get food, the lice…. It was terrible. I decided I’m finished, I don’t mind anymore. (They) were pushing me, supporting me.”
The two brothers — Jack and Marty Rosenfeld — picked up their friend and pushed him forward until they arrived at the camp.
“Once you sat down, they shot you in the head,” Rosenfeld said.
He remembered thinking that if he were to run into Meir’s parents after the war, he couldn’t stand to tell them that their son had died on the march.
“We dragged this boy,” he said. “He must’ve been about 50, 60 pounds, just skin and bone.”
Both agree that Meir would have been left behind to die alone if not for the Rosenfelds, who held him up for three days.
Remembering happier days
It was a far cry from the days of their youth, playing soccer in their Hungarian village of Hajdúdorog, but it was the last memory Rosenfeld had of his childhood friend.
“He disappeared,” Rosenfeld said Monday at his Teaneck home. “I’ve been looking for this guy for 65 years.”
That long search was about to come to an end, thanks to some sleuthing by Rosenfeld’s great-nephew. On Aug. 30, shortly after noon, the doorbell rang, and 81-year-old Amram Meir greeted his old friend.
The two men, who went through unbelievable horror together, stood face to face, reaching out to embrace one another. Tears and laughter filled Rosenfeld’s home that afternoon as he, his younger brother Joe, and other family members shared stories of some of the darkest days in history.
![]() | Michael Rosenfeld, center, tracked down his great-uncle Jack Rosenfeld’s old friend, Amran Meir through the Internet. |
“It was very emotional, and usually I don’t cry,” said 79-year-old Joe Rosenfeld, one of Jack’s younger brothers, who had also survived Mauthausen. “But when I saw (Meir) I was so overwhelmed I shed tears. I couldn’t believe I was crying.”
Joe Rosenfeld, who lives in Brooklyn, said that the five Rosenfeld children and Meir did almost everything together. When Germany invaded Hungary in 1944, the Rosenfelds and Meir’s family were eventually sent to Auschwitz, where most of Hungary’s Jews ended up.
A twist of fate diverted the two families’ train from the death camp, however, and they ended up in a labor camp in Vienna.
Joe, Max, and Abie Rosenfeld remained in Vienna; Jack, Marty, and Amram, who were older, were sent to the Russian front to dig tank traps. From July 1944 until April 1945, the three stayed at the front, with little to cover themselves and their only nourishment a daily plate of water and bread made from what Rosenfeld called sawdust.
In the spring of 1945, with the Russian army closing in, the death march to Mauthausen began. Shortly after arriving at the camp, the Rosenfelds found Meir’s father, who had been a doctor in Hajdúdorog and had delivered all of the family’s children. When liberation came later that year, the two families were sent to different hospitals.
While — almost miraculously — both families would survive the war intact, Jack and Amram would not see each other again for more than six decades.
The search
Now 82 and a widower with two grown children and a handful of grandchildren, Rosenfeld looks back at the Holocaust scarcely able to believe that humans had been so cruel. The moment Meir walked in on Monday was the culmination of a 65-year-long search that had taken Rosenfeld through the archives of Yad Vashem to a list of phone numbers compiled by a private investigator.
None of his research turned up Meir, though, and Rosenfeld feared he might never see his friend again.
“It’s a good feeling to see the person after so many years,” he said.
The five Rosenfeld brothers and their parents all survived the war, as did Meir’s parents, Morit and Leah, and his sisters, Naomi and Elizabeth.
“It’s one in a million” that everybody survived, Rosenfeld said.
While Meir and his family went to Israel after the war, Rosenfeld and his family came to America.
He and two of his brothers served in the armed forces during the Korean War, after which he received a degree in mechanical engineering. Rosenfeld then spent 30 years working in a factory in the garment center making zippers.
Occasionally, he would think about his friend. Not realizing that he now was called Amram Meir (his childhood name had been Imre Mayer), Rosenfeld checked the survivors’ registry through Yad Vashem for the old name.
Ironically, both Rosenfeld and Meir ended up providing testimony during the 1990s to Steven Spielberg’s Survivors of the Shoah Foundation, now the University of Southern California Shoah Foundation Institute.
Ultimately, it took somebody much younger than the director of “Schindler’s List” to reunite the old friends.
The reunion
Last year, Michael Rosenfeld — Marty Rosenfeld’s grandson — decided to try to find his great-uncle’s old friend, at the behest of his grandmother.
“We never thought he would be able to do something like this,” said his mother, Elizabeth Rosenfeld of Lawrence, N.Y. “Lo and behold, it worked.”
After a week of searching the Internet, the now-15-year-old Michael turned up a family tree that led him to a niece, Ruth Szinai-Witty, whom he looked up on the social-networking site Facebook.
“There’s such a wealth of information on the Internet; that just amazes me,” said Michael, who shares his Hebrew name, Moshe, with his grandfather Marty, the brother who helped Jack Rosenfeld carry Meir through the death march. Marty Rosenfeld died in the early 1990s.
Betting on the uniqueness of Szinai-Witty’s name, Michael sent her a message in November asking if she was the niece of Imre Mayer, son of Morit and Leah Mayer. The next day she replied that yes, that was her family, and she sent Michael a phone number.
“It’s like a dream,” Elizabeth Rosenfeld said.
At the time, Michael did not realize that his grandfather had also had a relationship with Meir. When Michael told his great-uncle that he had tracked down his long-lost friend, his reaction was a mix of shock and euphoria, Michael said.
“I was delirious,” Jack Rosenfeld said. “When I called [Meir], the first thing he asked was, ‘Zelig? That’s you? The goalkeeper?’” (Rosenfeld had changed his name from Zelig to Jack when he arrived in the United States.)
Meir, who lives in Toronto, has a son, Gadi, who lives in Montclair with his wife and two children. They decided that the next time Meir visited them, he and Rosenfeld would have their reunion.
And on Monday, as Michael’s mother stood with her family, beaming with pride, and as Gadi Meir stood with his father, Michael saw the fruits of his labor.
“After all they went through, seeing them back together, I don’t even know the word to describe it,” Michael said. “But I feel very accomplished.”
Michael’s research also turned up a Swiss bank account in Meir’s father’s name, and, if there’s more than $100 in it, he’ll look into claiming it, Meir joked.
“He’s a hell of a kid,” said Jack Rosenfeld.
And there they sat in Jack Rosenfeld’s home, surrounded by children and grandchildren eager to see the people they knew only from stories.
“I put my life on the line for him,” Jack Rosenfeld said. “I wouldn’t have done that for anybody else. For him I did. Thank God he remained alive and brought in another generation.”
That generation grew up on stories of their parents’ experiences, and for them, the reunion was a bridge to their past and future.
“We always talked about the shochet’s son [Rosenfeld],” Gadi Meir said.
“I figured there might be emotion,” he continued. “When my father goes back to his country or to Israel or tells the story of the Holocaust, there’s always emotion. I’m trying to listen to these stories so I can tell my kids about some of the darker history we’ve had.”
“It’s very gratifying to see families reunited,” said Jack Rosenfeld’s daughter, Fern Oppenheim of Scarsdale, N.Y., “to see the generations that were produced, to see that the next generations are flourishing, and the children’s children.”
For decades after survivors arrived in this country, she said, they tried to assimilate because they felt that society viewed them as outsiders. In recent decades, perceptions about survivors have changed, she said.
“It’s gratifying that at this stage in their lives, there’s a recognition that they were heroic,” she said.
As Jack and Joe Rosenfeld enjoyed their reunion with Amram Meir, their children spoke about their responsibilities to their parents and their children.
“That whole shtetl life, that rich Jewish life, is very much lost,” said Gadi Meir. “I’ll be able to share some of the stories with my children.”
“The next generation has a debt to pay,” Oppenheim said. “If [our families] were fortunate enough to survive this, we have to adhere to our heritage and pass it along.”
![]() | Fern Oppenheim, her father Jack Rosenfeld, Amram Meir, and his son, Gadi. “We always taked about the shochet’s son,” said Gadi Meir. “It’s very gratifying to see families reunited,” said Fern Oppenheim. |
| Resources to help trace Holocaust survivors |
Red Cross Holocaust and War Victims Tracing Center The University of Southern California Shoah Foundation U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museumhttp://www.ushmm.org/ Yad Vashem |
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PrintSharsheret, the national not-for-profit organization that supports young Jewish women facing breast cancer, kicks off its 10th anniversary by participating in the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation’s Race For The Cure on Sunday, Sept. 12, at Central Park in New York City. Last year, more than 700 women, men, and children joined Team Sharsheret, making it the largest team in the race for the fourth consecutive year.
Sharsheret Goodwill supporters include Englewood Hospital and Medical Center; Campmor Inc.; Yeshiva University; Stern College for Women Beren Campus; and The Rocking Chair, A Women’s Wellness Center. Team Supporters include Touro College-Lander College for Women. Team Patrons include Best Glatt Kosher; Chopstix USA; Dougie’s BBQ Teaneck; EJ’s Place; Ma’ayanot Yeshiva HS for Girls; Teaneck Dentist; The Frisch School; and Torah Academy of Bergen County.
To join Team Sharsheret, go to www.komennyc.org, click on Race for the Cure, and type Sharsheret. Call (866) 474-2774.
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Print![]() | Visiting Dachau last month are Dr. Norbert Wagner, Rabbi Jack Bemporad, Imam Syed Naqvi, Nasreen Bedat, Special Envoy Hannah S. Rosenthal, Sheik Yasir Qadhi, Imam Abdullah Antepli, Imam Suhaib Webb (behind Antepli), Dr. Syed Syeed, Imam Muhammad Maged, Imam Muzammil Siddiqi, Suhail A. Khan, and Prof. Marshall Breger. Photos Courtesy Center for Interreligious Understanding |
Rabbi Jack Bemporad wants it known that the visit he organized of eight Muslim-American leaders to concentration camps was a historic success.
Bemporad, director of the Carlstadt-based Center for Interreligious Understanding, called the Aug. 7 to 11 trip to Auschwitz in Germany and Dachau in Poland “a breakthrough in many respects, because … we took imams like [Yasir] Qadhi, for example,” who 10 years ago called the Holocaust a hoax. (Bemporad led the trip, which was sponsored by the Konrad Adenauer Foundation, with Prof. Marshall Breger of the Catholic University of America.)
“The problem is,” said Bemporad, an Englewood resident, that “many imams came out of Saudi Arabia and Egypt because that’s where they get their education. That’s very unfortunate. The education they get is in many ways based on The Protocols of the Elders of Zion,” he explained. “The single greatest instrument of anti-Semitism and anti-Israelism in the world today, it gives the erroneous view that the Jews are a devilish group that wants to control the world by dominating the press, economies,” and so forth.
One reason that proven fraud is invoked, he said, “is to diminish the significance of the Holocaust. The whole point is to show that the Holocaust was an invention to take Israel and have a beachhead in the Middle East that should really be Muslim.
“The best way to convince people of a reality they are not sure of is to expose them to that reality in a way that is undeniable.”
Thus, he said, even “many who accepted the Holocaust never had a sense of the reality and the totality of it. As a result practically all of us were in tears or broke down” at the concentration camps.
“The main point,” said Bemporad, “is that … they are using this experience in their services and talking to their people — that’s talking about tens of thousands of people.”
Also, he said, “They want Jews to speak in mosques about this reality so they can unite with us to condemn anti-Semitism in all its forms.”
Meanwhile, a rumor swirled around the blogosphere, and was discussed at sites like Politico and Salon, that Abraham Foxman, the national director of the Anti-Defamation League, had lobbied against the trip. That, together with the ADL’s recent opposition to the planned mosque at Ground Zero, fueled speculations that he, the defender of bias against Jews, was biased against Muslims.
But Foxman told The Jewish Standard on Tuesday that there had been “a lot of noise and not so much light…. Nobody bothers to check the facts anymore,” he complained. “All of a sudden you will read [an allegation] in God knows how many places as a fact.”
What he did, he told the Standard, was question the participation of Hannah Rosenthal, the State Department’s anti-Semitism envoy. He said he had “shared with her a concern” about the appropriateness of a government representative’s joining a private mission. “Unfortunately,” he said, “it didn’t stay there and took on a life of its own.”
He had “no problem with [the Muslim leaders] going” on the trip, he said, adding, “I welcome the fact that they returned with the statement that they did.”
Following is a statement issued by the Muslim leaders who visited Auschwitz and Dachau last month.
“O you who believe, stand up firmly for justice as witnesses to Almighty God.” (Holy Qu’ran, al-Nisa “The Women” 4:135)
On Aug. 7-11, 2010, we the undersigned Muslim American faith and community leaders visited Dachau and Auschwitz concentration camps where we witnessed firsthand the historical injustice of the Holocaust.
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Following is a statement issued by the Muslim leaders who visited Auschwitz and Dachau last month.
“O you who believe, stand up firmly for justice as witnesses to Almighty God.” (Holy Qu’ran, al-Nisa “The Women” 4:135)
On Aug. 7-11, 2010, we the undersigned Muslim American faith and community leaders visited Dachau and Auschwitz concentration camps where we witnessed firsthand the historical injustice of the Holocaust.
We met survivors who, several decades later, vividly and bravely shared their horrific experience of discrimination, suffering, and loss. We saw the many chilling places where men, women, and children were systematically and brutally murdered by the millions because of their faith, race, disability, and political affiliation.
In Islam, the destruction of one innocent life is like the destruction of the whole of humanity and the saving of one life is like the saving of the whole of humanity (Holy Qu’ran, al-Ma’idah “the Tablespread” 5:32). While entire communities perished by the many millions, we know that righteous Muslims from Bosnia, Turkey, Tunisia, Morocco, and Albania saved many Jews from brutal repression, torture, and senseless destruction.
We bear witness to the absolute horror and tragedy of the Holocaust where over 12 million human souls perished, including 6 million Jews.
We condemn any attempts to deny this historical reality and declare such denials or any justification of this tragedy as against the Islamic code of ethics.
We condemn anti-Semitism in any form. No creation of Almighty God should face discrimination based on his or her faith or religious conviction.
We stand united as Muslim-American faith and community leaders and recognize that we have a shared responsibility to continue to work together with leaders of all faiths and their communities to fight the dehumanization of all peoples based on their religion, race, or ethnicity. With the disturbing rise of anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, and other forms of hatred, [hate-filled] rhetoric, and bigotry, now more than ever, people of faith must stand together for truth.
Together, we pledge to make real the commitment of “never again” and to stand united against injustice wherever it may be found in the world today.
•Imam Muzammil Siddiqi, Islamic Society of Orange County, Calif., and chairman of the Fiqh Council of North America
•Imam Muhamad Maged, All-Dulles-Area Muslim Society, Dulles, Va., and Vice President of the Islamic Society of North America
•Dr. Sayyid M. Syeed, National Director of the Islamic Society of North America’s Office of Interfaith & Community Services, Washington, D.C.
•Imam Suhaib Webb, Muslim Community Association, Santa Clara, Calif.
•Laila Muhammad, daughter of the late Imam W.D. Muhammad of Chicago, Ill.
•Sheik Yasir Qadhi, Dean of Academics for the Al Maghrib Institute, New Haven, Conn.
•Imam Syed Naqvi, Director of the Islamic Information Center in Washington, D.C.
•Imam Abdullah T. Antepli, Muslim Chaplain, Duke University, Durham, N.C.
Rabbi Jack Bemporad wants it known that the visit he organized of eight Muslim-American leaders to concentration camps was a historic success.
Bemporad, director of the Carlstadt-based Center for Interreligious Understanding, called the Aug. 7 to 11 trip to Auschwitz in Germany and Dachau in Poland “a breakthrough in many respects, because … we took imams like [Yasir] Qadhi, for example,” who 10 years ago called the Holocaust a hoax. (Bemporad led the trip, which was sponsored by the Konrad Adenauer Foundation, with Prof. Marshall Breger of the Catholic University of America.)
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PrintSounding the shofar in the synagogue on Rosh HaShanah is the high point of my year.
How to BlowNo other mitzvah in Judaism is so dependent on a personal skill or entails such high drama. And, at least for me, no other mitzvah renders quite the same sense of achievement and fulfillment.
I often hear people talk about the awakening power of the sound of the shofar — how awesome a moment or how inspiring an experience it is for them to hear it. For me, it is both a very public and an intensely personal experience.
As I approach the bimah, I find myself quite alone, concentrating intently on what I have to do. Yet I am also highly conscious of being surrounded by hundreds of people who are relying on my ability to enable them to fulfill the central observance of the day.
![]() | Veteran shofar-blower David Olivestone sounds the shofar. Orthodox Union |
In Numbers 29:1, the Torah designates the first day of the seventh month, that is Rosh HaShanah, as “a day of blowing the shofar.” The Oral Law, as interpreted by the rabbis, sets out a number of regulations concerning both the instrument itself and the manner in which it is to be sounded.
The shofar must be fashioned out of a ram’s horn. With the smaller end cut off, the horn is straightened out a little by heating it, so that a hole can be bored through it. A mouthpiece is formed out of the horn itself. No finger holes or reed or valves — such as you would find on other wind or brass instruments — may be added to help vary the notes. Thus, the only control you have over the notes is how you use your lips and your tongue.
How to blow
To produce a note, first use your tongue to moisten the extreme right-hand corner of your lips, and place the shofar firmly against them in that spot. With your lips tightly closed, make a tiny hole in them where the shofar is, and then force air into it as if you were making a Bronx cheer (a rasping sound), but without actually producing such a rude noise.
If you get it right, a bright and powerful note will emerge from the shofar. The tighter you squeeze the shofar against your lips, the higher the note that you will sound. It’s not necessary to puff out your cheeks; breathe in and hold the breath in your chest, letting it out slowly to control the length of the note.
The three mandatory sounds
The sequence and the length of the notes must follow the established pattern with great accuracy. The three mandatory sounds are designed to awaken thoughts of repentance and of subservience to God in the mind of the listener.
First comes the teki’ah, a long, clear note of alarm. This is used to bracket each of the other sounds, which are meant to be evocative of crying. The shevarim, a three-part note, suggests the sound of sighing or moaning. The teru’ah, consisting of nine rapid-fire staccato sounds, dramatically echoes the sobbing of someone in despair.
One hundred notes, in various combinations, are sounded at intervals throughout the Rosh HaShanah service, and each set is capped by a teki’ah gedolah, an extra-long note in which many also hear a sign of strength and hope.
Not too many people persevere enough to become really proficient at blowing the shofar. Many of those who do learned the skill from their fathers at a very young age, as I did. But each year, it takes much practice over a month or so both to perfect the notes once again and to retool the muscles of the lips and the strength of the lungs.
The sound of my thoughts
Since there’s no real way of controlling the quality of the shofar’s sound, you can never be 100 percent confident that the right sound will emerge. So whatever spiritual thoughts I might try to have as I prepare myself to sound the shofar usually evaporate as I begin, and I am left simply hoping that, despite my trepidation, the notes will come out as perfectly as they did when I was practicing.
Yet being in control of the shofar’s power is an extraordinary privilege and responsibility. Sometimes I like to think that the next teki’ah or the next shevarim could be the one that carries the congregation’s prayers soaring to the heavens. Sometimes I pray that this wordless animal sound that I am producing will have the ability to take the place of the prayers that are unspoken — those that words are inadequate to express.
I will not deny that I enjoy the congratulations and the handshakes that are offered to me after I sound the last teki’ah gedolah. And what am I thinking at this point, when it’s all over? That in just one year, with God’s help, I will get to do it again.
JTA
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Print![]() | Michael Edwards, James Brenner, Robert Brenner in ambulance driver’s seat, Jewel and Walter Brenner, and Jamie, Susan, Byron and Amanda Edwards. |
A new ambulance will be joining the fleet of Magen David Adom, Israel’s emergency medical service, thanks to the generosity of the Brenner and Edwards families.
Siblings Robert Brenner, James Brenner, and Susan (Brenner) Edwards, together with Susan’s husband, Michael, donated the ambulance through American Friends of Magen David Adom. The gift was in honor of the 60th wedding anniversary of their parents, Jewel and Walter Brenner, members of the Jewish Center of Teaneck for 44 years.
The honorees, their children, and grandchildren — Amanda, a junior at The Frisch High School; and Byron and Jamie, both Frisch alumni — attended the dedication ceremony in Teaneck on Aug. 25.
The ambulance will be on call 24 hours a day/ seven days a week to respond to emergencies. Through AFMDA donors, more than 800 ambulances and mobile intensive care units are stationed throughout Israel, logging nearly 10 million miles and taking care of 550,000 patients annually.
MDA, Israel’s only government-mandated ambulance service, receives no government funding and depends on the support of AFMDA. For information, contact Gary Perl, Northeast regional director, at (212) 757-1627 or .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address).
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The pairing of Jewish calendars with striking images of Judaica makes for an exciting combination.
With each calendar page we encounter an illustration of a historical, or contemporary, precious Judaic object that can brighten our surroundings, lift our spirits, and enlighten us about some aspect of our rich traditions.
All the calendars reviewed below give candlelighting times, Torah readings, and the dates for major and minor holidays.
The Jewish Calendar 2011, from Universe Publishing, is decorated with art treasures from the collection of the Jewish Historical Museum of Amsterdam.
The first page of this wall calendar has an illustration of a stunning silver etrog basket dating from 1851 to 1878 (Amsterdam).
Among the textile works illustrated, there is a beautifully embroidered tallit from 1923-24 (Amsterdam). A page of the De Leipnik Haggadah, on lambskin parchment and leather, comes from Darmstadt, Germany, 1734.
An oil painting by Isidor Kaufman depicts a touching “Portrait of a Jewish Little Boy,” 1900. A Torah shield by Piet Isak Cohen, of silver and rubber (Amsterdam, 2001) is a fine example of an ultra-modern ceremonial object.
The Universe desk calendar comes with illustrations of objects from the collection of the Jewish Museum of New York.
The large, diverse selection of works spans many centuries, mediums and themes.
It will make a most welcome gift for the busy household because of the excellent guide it contains to all the holiday dates on the Jewish calendar.
This guide, in the form of a chart, lists every major, and minor, holiday and fast day, along with such observances as Rosh Chodesh (the new month), Israel Independence Day, Holocaust Remembrance Day, and others.
![]() | The Pomegranate Jewish Calendar for 2011 features paintings by Malcah Zeldis. This one is called Rosh Hashanah. |
The chart provides information such as the biblical/historical significance of the holiday listed, its seasonal significance, its theme, its mood, and its selected customs, along with the appropriate biblical readings.
Leafing through this calendar is like taking a walk through a great museum exhibit because of the large number of illustrations and their astonishing variety.
Most striking are some of the contemporary silver pieces, such as the Mezuzah (2004) by Israeli artist Adam Tihany, produced by Orfevrerie Christofle.
Two silver works by Ludwig Yehuda Wolpert, a menorah and Torah finials, date from several decades before the Christofle mezuzah, but foreshadow the modern style.
Another magnificent ultra-modern silver work is Moshe Zabari’s Torah Crown (l969).
Other Judaica illustrations in this calendar are a Limoges coffee pot with Hebrew writing on it; a multicolored ketubah with relief print letters by Gregg A. Handorff (l989); and paintings by Shahn, Oppenheim, Szyk, and others.
Among this year’s calendars from Pomegranate publishers, The Jewish Museum Calendar 2011, for the wall, features Raphael Soyer’s oil on canvas “Dancing Lesson” (l926) on its cover.
The painting is so vibrant it begs to be framed after the calendar year is over.
Another charming oil on canvas, from the late l920s, is “Flowers on Table,” by Israeli artist Reuven Rubin.
A Rosh HaShanah card from early 20th-century Germany, on embossed paper surrounded by white doves, recalls a more gentle era in that part of the world.
An elaborate cast-silver menorah takes us back to l860s Lemberg, to a city that once was the “Paris” of Ukraine.
Among the contemporary works is American artist Toby Kahn’s “Omer Calendar” (Saphyr, 2002) of acrylic and wood.
Bursting with color, Malcah Zeldis’ wall calendar, “Jewish Celebrations,” also by Pomegranate, contains a joyous series of images drawn in the folk-art style.
Looking at these detailed portraits of a family observing various traditions throughout the year, we are drawn into the pictures, and made to feel like participants.
Zeldis portrays such rituals as the seder, havdalah and benchen licht (lighting Shabbat or holiday candles), along with such holidays as Purim, Shavuot, and Rosh HaShanah.
Each illustration comes with an explanation of the ritual’s meaning and significance.
It is always a delight, for adults as well as youngsters, to see what “My Very Own Jewish Calendar” contains.
This wall calendar is always filled with facts, customs, anecdotes, trivia, and activities. Its monthly recipes are always healthful, simple, easy to make and delicious.
This year there is a fine, concise description of the shofar, its origin, significance, and how it is produced and used by both Ashkenazim and Sephardim.
An overview of the history of Jewish calendars in the past 200 years notes that a Jewish calendar in Germany used to list market and fair days, and one printed in London included the times of high water at London Bridge.
Keeping up with modern technology the calendar informs us that wherever we live we now can “twitter” our prayers to the Western Wall in Jerusalem.
Closer to home, we are reminded that National Jewish Art Week, to encourage the creation of Jewish artwork, takes place in February and is connected to the Torah portion read on Shabbat Vayakhel.
The artists celebrated in this Torah portion were jewelers, weavers, sculptors, and engravers.
We are informed that the Houston Holocaust Museum is collecting 1.5 million handmade butterflies, in memory of the l.5 million children lost in the Shoah. The deadline for submissions is June 2011. Butterflies can be no larger than 8”x10”. They will go on exhibit next year.
On the subject of blessings we are told that the great scholar Maimonides divided them into three types — those of enjoyment, those recited before doing a mitzvah, and those of praise and gratitude, like wearing new clothes, seeing a rainbow, or being in the presence of a king.
The latter blessing was recited by Israeli author S.Y. Agnon when he received the Nobel Prize for literature, in l966, and found himself in the presence of the king of Sweden.
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PrintWhat do Oprah Winfrey, Michael Jackson, Corey Booker and Dr. Phil have in common? Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, a Jewish Standard columnist. On Monday, Sept. 13, 7 p.m., at the first annual Now Generation BBQ, hosted by Dana and Jim Adler and sponsored by UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey, Boteach, author of “Kosher Sex” and “Shalom in the Home,” will lead a discussion entitled “Let’s Talk about Sex.”
Dietary laws will be observed. Billed as an event for couples under 50, general admission is $180 a couple, $90 per person. For information, call Allison Halpern, 201-820-3955, email .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address) or go to www.ujannj.org/shmuleybbq.
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Print![]() | Local cantors who participated in the mission featured in the film include, from left, Cantors David Perper, Faith Steinsnyder, Ilan Mamber, and Sam Weiss. |
NCM Fathom and Mod Three Productions present “100 Voices: A Journey Home,” on Tuesday, Sept. 21, at 7 p.m., in 500 select movie theaters nationwide. Locally the film will be screened at the AMC Garden State 16 in Paramus and the AMC Clifton Commons 16. The two-hour musical documentary highlights “Poland to Israel: A Journey Through Time,” the Cantors Assembly Foundation’s historic mission to Poland and Israel last summer with 70 cantors including local Cantors Sam Weiss of the Jewish Community Center of Paramus, Faith Steinsnyder of The Village Temple in Manhattan and her husband, David Perper of Beth Haverim-Shir Shalom in Mahwah, and Ilan Mamber of Temple Beth Rishon in Wyckoff. Tickets at participating box offices or www.FathomEvents.com. Trailer at www.100voicesmovie.com.
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PrintThe Union for Traditional Judaism’s Teaneck headquarters sold at auction early last month, but a motion filed last week in U.S. bankruptcy court last week cast doubt on the transaction.
UTJ’s attorney, Janice Grubin, filed a motion on Aug. 27 requesting an extension for her client to file a Chapter 11 plan. Extending this period of exclusivity, during which the debtor can create a plan to pull itself out of bankruptcy without imposed outside solutions, is not atypical in bankruptcy cases, she said. The property went to auction on Aug. 4, which was won by 333 Realty for $1.45 million.
“In the normal course of Chapter 11 cases, debtors often move for extension of their exclusive period to file a plan and solicit acceptances thereto,” she said. “This is a very common motion filed by Chapter 11 debtors.”
Within the motion, however, is language that puts the sale into doubt. A section listing cause to extend the exclusive period references “a significant unresolved contingency still exists — namely, the Sale with an approved buyer, 333 Realty LLC, who, it now appears, may not close.”
Grubin based that concern on communication with 333 Realty.
According to the motion, UTJ intends to address the issue soon, which may include canceling the sale and going to a new auction in mid-October.
Jack Zakim, 333 Realty’s attorney, told The Jewish Standard on Monday that his client has no plans to break its contract with UTJ. Nor, he said, has a decision been made as to how his client plans to develop the property.
The real estate company is, however, engaged in discussions with a group of Teaneck conservationists who want to save the massive oak tree on the property.
“There’s a lot of moving parts here and it keeps changing every day,” he said.
The motion has raised hopes at Netivot Shalom, the modern Orthodox synagogue that has met in UTJ for more than 10 years, that 333 Realty would not purchase the building and the synagogue would have another chance to buy it.
“Our preference far and away would be to stay in the present location,” the shul’s president, Pamela Scheininger said. “We’d like to speak to UTJ again about acquiring the property. It’s always been our objective.”
Netivot Shalom began a capital campaign earlier this week to raise funds to buy the building. A goal has been set, but Scheininger would not comment on it since it had not yet been revealed to the membership.
“We are confident we will be able to raise the funds necessary to secure Netivot Shalom’s future,” she said.
Netivot Shalom filed paperwork to make a bid during last month’s bankruptcy auction, but did not bid in the Aug. 4 auction.
“We have looked at everything that has been suggested to us,” Scheininger said. “We have not ruled out anything at this point.”
UTJ declared bankruptcy in May and its leaders decided to sell its headquarters to cover its debts. Controversy erupted in July when the union began work to remove a large oak tree that towers over the property. Union leaders argued that safety concerns prompted them to seek the tree’s removal, while the tree’s supporters argued that the removal was a ploy to get more money for the property. The tree, estimated to be between 200 and 300 years old, is considered the oldest in Teaneck.
Spurred by protests and petitions by eco-activists, the Teaneck township council took up the issue at its July meeting and considered bidding on the property to save the tree. The council ultimately decided not to intervene, but UTJ left the tree up through the auction. UTJ has asked for written proposals from whoever is interested in preserving the tree but has not received any, Grubin said.
“We’re doing our best to maximize the debtors’ assets,” she said. “Whether that is with or without the tree is still an open issue.”
Until a closing date is decided upon, UTJ finds itself unable to make other housing arrangements.
“We’ve shopped for a number of different sites that look very appealing to us,” said Rabbi Ronald Price, UTJ’s executive vice president, “but until the building closes we really can’t take a chance on signing a lease with somebody else.”
When it entered bankruptcy, UTJ secured financing that will keep it “in reasonably healthy shape” for six to 12 months, Price said. A planning committee to examine a post-Chapter 11 future for the union gave its first report at a board meeting Monday night, but the board decided against making the report public.
“We see the current situation as something that will eventually pass, God willing,” Price said.
Judge Robert Drain is expected to hear UTJ’s motion in U.S. bankruptcy court in White Plains, N.Y., on Sept. 13.
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Print![]() | Cong. Ron Klein |
The National Organization for Political Action Committee sponsors an event on Sunday, Sept. 19 at 8 p.m., at a private home in Englewood for Cong. Ron Klein (D-FLA). Klein is running for re-election as Florida’s 22nd district Congressman. For reservations, call (201) 788-5133 or .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address).
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Print![]() | Cheryl Averta |
Cheryl Averta is the new coordinator for Shalom Baby, a support group for parents of newborns and newly adopted children up to age 3, sponsored by UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey’s Synagogue Leadership Initiative and the Henry & Marilyn Taub Foundation. The program offers monthly play dates including music, story-time, snacks and crafts. Before coming to Shalom Baby, Averta was a staff member at the Bergen YJCC’s nursery school.
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Print![]() | Rabbi Arthur Weiner, top, Rabbi Benjamin Yudin, Rabbi Jordan Millstein, Rabbi Ephraim Simon, and Rabbi Neil Tow |
Calling Florida Pastor Terry Jones’ proposed burning of the Koran on Sept. 11 both “catastrophically stupid and fundamentally immoral,” Rabbi Jordan Millstein, religious leader of Temple Sinai in Tenafly, said such an act would have major repercussions.
Jones — pastor of the Dove World Outreach Center in Gainesville, Fla. — has proposed that 9/11 be declared “International Burn a Koran Day.” Defending his idea on MSNBC’s “Hardball” on Aug. 26, the pastor said, “We want to send a very clear message” to Muslims that Sharia law is not welcome in America.
“It will likely be publicized all over the Islamic world, confirming in the minds of many Muslims that we hate them, that we are in a ‘clash of civilizations,’ and America’s real goal is not to stop terrorism but to attack and defeat Islam,” said Millstein. “This will only serve to strengthen extremists and terrorists in the Islamic world.”
The rabbi added that, as a Jew, he is “appalled and disgusted at the thought of someone burning the scriptures of another faith. How could anyone heap such disrespect upon another person’s cherished beliefs? It is astounding how low some Americans have gone in their prejudice and hatred.”
Rabbi Ephraim Simon, executive director of Friends of Lubavitch of Bergen County and religious leader of Marcus Chabad House, pointed out that “we have to be very sensitive to book-burning,” since we have seen our books, Torah scrolls, and talmudic texts burned throughout our history.
“It’s not a proper Jewish response to 9/11,” he said. “The proper response is to focus on adding acts of goodness and kindness, acts of love, to the world. We have to point out evil where we see it and stand up to it, but not everyone who studies the Koran is evil.”
Rabbi Neil Tow of the Glen Rock Jewish Center said. “The first thing that came to mind was the burning of the Talmud and other Hebrew books over the centuries — France in the 13th century, Italy in the 16th, Poland in the 18th, and Nazi Germany in the 20th. My sense is that choosing to burn a holy book in a public way can cause those who are religiously moderate to feel under attack and make radicals feel even more justified.”
Tow suggested that burning a holy book is an act of violence directed at the symbol of a people and that “violence only leads to more violence. We have to short-circuit the cycle of violence and find other ways to address the issues — in this case, the relationship among faith groups.”
He recalled reading “Fahrenheit 451” in middle school, which first introduced him to the idea of book-burning.
“I [fear] a place where if people don’t like ideas, they feel they can be torched and destroyed. I hope it’s not the kind of world our children will live in. Our society has always tried to foster a pool of ideas and debate about them. If there are things that are troubling or difficult or potentially harmful around us, we have a responsibility as American citizens to have a lively and engaging debate about it. I don’t think burning books is in the spirit of the ‘American way’ of talking things through.”
Tow added that he is also a book lover, with a “fondness for the wholeness of the written word and the books that contain them — whether they are things I agree with or not.”
“We should oppose [Jones’] actions and activity with the same passion we opposed the Westboro Baptist Church when they visited our area last fall,” said Rabbi Arthur Weiner, leader of the Jewish Community Center of Paramus. “Were we in Florida, I would insist that our [Jewish Community Relations Council] publicly oppose this horror, and join with those who oppose it. As it is, I am confident that our national organizations as well as local Florida communities are handling this well.”
Weiner said that despite Jews’ historic differences with both Christianity and Islam, “we have always held all faiths in esteem, even if we had to protect ourselves from their adherents.”
He noted that while Jones’ projected actions may be constitutionally protected speech — though, he added, he is not sure of that — “they are immoral, and completely and 100 percent forbidden by Jewish law.”
Rabbi Benjamin Yudin, religious leader of Shomrei Torah Orthodox Congregation in Fair Lawn, said that burning a Koran “is not simply politically incorrect but borders on morally incorrect. The Jewish people paid dearly when the books of the Rambam were burned,” he said, “so we don’t burn books. That’s not the way to do it.”
What they’ll say in their sermons
While the rabbis agreed that political issues provide great fodder for sermons, those who are already certain of their High Holiday sermon themes will look in another direction.
“As a rabbi and spiritual leader, I always emphasize and focus on what we can do to make ourselves better people in every aspect of our lives,” said Simon, “better parents, better spouses, better friends. Ultimately, the High Holidays are a time we can reflect on our unique purpose and mission in the world.”
Simon said he will challenge congregants to ask, “Am I am utilizing all of the gifts God gave me to make a difference in people’s lives and in the world? We have to look at the past, reflecting within our own lives and [exploring] what we can do to improve on the past to make a difference.”
Tow said that on the first day of Rosh HaShanah he’ll look at some of the ways “we can begin to connect more closely with the words and messages of the prayer books … becoming more sensitive and connected in our davening.”
He said the focus of what he wants to communicate is that “aspects of prayer that can sometimes make it difficult for us can be used as opportunities for growth.”
On the second day of yom tov he will continue his tradition of looking at the Akedah, or binding of Isaac, from different points of view.
“This year, I’ll look at it from the point of view of the angel who calls to Abraham to stop.” He’ll use that as a starting point “to see if it’s possible for us in what we do and say every day to be more aware [and] in the moment,” truly perceiving the impact of what we do and say. “Is it possible to catch ourselves if we’re starting to move off the path, like the angel gave Abraham an insight in that moment, telling him to stop? We need to develop a more sensitive self-awareness.”
Tow suggested that if, instead of having to fix things afterwards, we catch ourselves as we’re about to go into something, “we can be an angel to ourselves.”
Weiner of Paramus said he will explore the issue of Jewish identity and the importance of reinvigorating that aspect of our lives. He said he has always believed that the High Holiday audience “is fully three-generational” and “rabbis have to craft a message that can reach everyone. It’s a challenge.”
He said that “some of the things we’re seeing, particularly in the non-Orthodox world, indicate or confirm our alienation, or the trend toward living low-impact Judaism.” The data, he said, “are symptomatic of a much larger issue: our self-perception as Jews.”
He will urge members to make their Jewishness an integral, basic part of their identity.
“The key to helping us get back on track is to reassert that identity,” he said. “How do we go about achieving this? Come to services and find out.”
Rabbis have to be careful speaking about political issues, he said. While they should address them, they should also be careful to distinguish between their own political opinions and “those laws God gave to Moses.”
No rabbi walks that “fine line” perfectly, he said, “but we have to make sure what we are sharing in the name of Torah is reflective of the Torah’s values and not our particular opinions.”
Asked what he will speak about at High Holiday services this year, Yudin laughed, saying, “You’re kidding, right? I’ll talk about Torah, mitzvot, and why it’s important to perpetuate Jewish tradition. What else is there?”
“It’s all in the packaging,” he added. “However I said it last year, I’ll say it differently this year, and in 15 different ways. And next year, I’ll talk about it again.”
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Print![]() | Alan Brill argues in his new book that Jews need to learn more about their own faith while encountering others. |
Teaneck resident Alan Brill’s new book, “Judaism and Other Religions: Models of Understanding” (Palgrave MacMillan), is a sort of post-tolerance manifesto for a post 9/11 world.
The humanistic approach to tolerance in today’s Western world treats “the other” as secular without requiring any understanding of the other’s religion, argues Brill, an Orthodox rabbi, interfaith activist, and Cooperman/Ross endowed professor in honor of Sister Rose Thering at Seton Hall University in East Orange.
Jews involved in interfaith dialogue since the 1970s have mostly come from the 1960s “universal, we’re-all-one perspective” that emphasized openness over exclusivism, says Brill. He felt that today’s realities called for a look at how classical Jewish sources could bring an old/new dimension to the discussion.
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“As religion has reasserted itself all over the globe post-9/11, the secular approach doesn’t work,” asserts Brill, 49. “A ‘tolerant’ position doesn’t actually encourage diversity and difference but rather a hidden sense of ‘why can’t we all be the same?’ You have to come to the table with a notion of what your own faith can bring, with a commitment to your own faith, not as a general universalist but with something to say.”
For Jews, that “something to say” is found in our traditional texts, says Brill.
Over the course of several years, he collected and examined biblical, rabbinic, medieval, and early modernist Jewish sources to extrapolate a Jewish theology of other religions.
“I am more than surprised at frequent interfaith encounters where the Catholic speaks from the official Church teachings, the Muslim speaks from traditional teachings, and the Jewish representative addresses the assembled from the general perspective of comparative religion, politics, or anthropology,” writes Brill, who was one of a few Jewish scholars invited to an interfaith conference convened by Saudi Arabian King Abdullah in Madrid two years ago. “There need to be Jewish theologies of other religions.”
This is not merely an academic exercise, Brill asserts. “What we say on interfaith topics does matter; it does lead to greater understanding, and it leads to practical change. If you can’t figure out what to say about Christians from a Jewish point of view it will affect how you relate to them. And for pulpit rabbis, how they think about or talk about other religions really affects their congregants.”
The questions he attempts to answer for readers are: If God is one, then what is the value of the other religions? Does God care only about one small people or does His plan include the wider world? How does one theologically account for the differences between religions? How do Jews think about other religions? How do we balance our multi-faith world with the Jewish texts?
“Most Jews are not remotely aware of the texts in this volume,” he writes, adding that his book “reflects an Orthodox training and erudition, but it is not limited to Orthodox thinkers.” This is not to say that his sources are obscure, but that their writings on this particular issue never got much notice. “People know these sources, but they just pass over passages like the one where [10th-century Baghdad scholar] Saadya Gaon discusses the Brahmins.”
With its hefty list price of $85, the book is currently being acquired by libraries and universities around the world —including some in China, India, and Australia. Next year, it will come out in paperback for a wider audience, defined by Brill as “anybody interested in the Jewish attitudes toward other religions, from clergy to people who want to make Jewish sense of the stories they read in the papers.” To make it accessible to gentiles involved in interfaith encounter, the book’s Jewish concepts are all explained in clear terms.
Brill is teaching in Seton Hall’s graduate department of Jewish-Christian Studies on Jewish ethics and the land of Israel in the three faiths. He is lining up a fall schedule of speaking engagements about the book, and putting the finishing touches on a second volume, to be titled “Judaism and World Religions.”
“Judaism does have something to say about other religions. That’s the big point,” he says. “It goes in many directions and has many Jewish voices.”
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PrintMembers of Temple Emanu-el of Closter, led by Rabbi David-Seth Kirshner, recently returned from an 11-day family b’nai mitzvah trip to Israel.
Nearly 80 members of the congregation (20 families) participated in the trip, held Aug. 16 to 27, visiting sites from the Western Wall to Masada.
Shul members rafted down the Jordan River, floated in the Dead Sea, rode camels, and helped out at a local soup kitchen. In addition, they lent a hand at Yad Lakashish, studied at the Hartman Institute in Jerusalem, and met with the parents of captive Israeli soldier Gilad Shalit, presenting them with a letter from Sen. Robert Menendez.
Rabbi Daniel Gordis spent a morning with the group, teaching them about the challenges and opportunities confronting the nation.
Each b’nai mitzvah-age participant was called to the Torah at the southern portion of the Wall, near Robinson’s Arch, where most Conservative celebrations take place.
“It was life-changing,” said one shul member. “To share Israel with my children and my community is something I will never forget.”
A parent of three added, “Most vacation spots we experience once. Israel is a place we will keep coming back to over and over.”
Kirshner pointed out that this was the first trip to Israel for more than half of the attendees.
“Everyone there felt great about standing in Israel and with Israel,” he said, noting that this is the shul’s third Israel trip in three years.
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Print![]() | Children playing in the new JCC playground. Tovit Lore, courtesy of the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades. |
The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly will hold a membership “Open House” Sunday, Sept. 19, from 1 to 7 p.m. From 1-3 p.m. there will be tours, membership drawing, and a reception with JCC staff. Guests can use the pool, sample classes, and use the adult and youth fitness centers. There will be special activities for children, including a moon bounce, tumble room, and use of the water park.
Sample classes and demonstrations for children and adults will be offered from 1 to 7 p.m. There will be a Health Fair, themed “100 Days to Make a Change” featuring experts from Englewood Hospital and Medical Center, chair massages, nutritionists, group exercise classes, and Polar Body age testing.
From 12:30 to 2:30 p.m, the Chuck Guttenberg Center for the Physically Challenged will hold “Special Games – Special People,” an annual field day event designed for those 4 to 70 with physical and developmental disabilities.
Babysitting will be available during select hours. For information or to volunteer, call Shelley Levy at (201) 408-1489.
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PrintWhat was a young black bear doing in a playground at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly Monday night?
“Playing a little bit,” said Avi Lewinson, the JCC’s executive director. “He was climbing some of the apparatus.”
Lewinson and Paul Costa, the facility director, were close enough to be “almost dancing with the bear,” he said. But, he added, “it was looking to stay away from me as much as I was looking to stay away from it.”
“On all fours,” Lewinson went on, “he — or maybe she — looked like a St. Bernard, or maybe a little smaller. Standing — I didn’t ask him to stand back-to-back with me — he was 5’9” to 5’11”, a little shorter than me, and weighed about 200 pounds, including a lot of fur.”
The bear soon climbed out of the playground and went into the woods in back of the JCC, where the police, whom Lewinson called, could make him out with their searchlights.
“I don’t feel he was dangerous,” Lewinson said. “He was like a big collie. He never charged and didn’t growl…. He was just doing what bears do…. When he realized we were close, he ran from us.”
This was not the bear’s first venture to the JCC; he was seen there about two weeks ago, and by the time the police got there, he had disappeared into the woods.
“If he was interested,” Lewinson said, “I would have sold him a membership.”
Indeed, said Tenafly Police Chief Michael Bruno, “he seems to like the JCC.”
He added that “we can’t and don’t want to shoot the bear, because he has not become aggressive or threatened anyone.”
Noting that a Dumpster is near the building, Bruno speculated that the bear was “just looking for food in a rather congested area that isn’t conducive to bears and humans cohabiting well…. I don’t think [people] need to be afraid.” He added that he had “asked the director to maintain a little bit of heightened awareness.”
The police are working with the New Jersey Division of Fish and Game, Bruno said. “They are trying to see if they can get a trap installed here, and then they would take the bear and release him somewhere else…. I hope it will come to a quick conclusion that’s safe for everyone, including the animal.”
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Print![]() | Heller’s 11th-grade Algebra II class surprised her with a cake for her half-birthday. Madeline Schmuckler |
Joyce Heller has some great stories.
Hired four years ago to teach math at Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High School for Girls, she learned that while students there had performed dramas, they had never done any musicals.
Setting out to remedy that, she directed and produced their first musical, “Oliver,” which she describes as a “great success.”
“Finding an appropriate musical for an all-girls school is a daunting task,” she said. “Too much kissing and hugging doesn’t work.”
The next year, the girls performed “The Sound of Music.”
“My favorite thing was to announce rehearsals” over the school’s sound system, she laughed, recalling that she would say, “Will the mother superior and nuns please report to the beit Knesset?” The day of the play, “The ‘nuns’ could be seen davening mincha.”
“Fiddler on the Roof” was also a hit, she said, “though our 5’2” Tevye was shorter than her five daughters and wife.”
“My first job was at an all-boys school, DeWitt Clinton in the Bronx,” she recalls, reflecting that while she started out teaching only boys, now she teaches only girls.
In between, she taught at Bergen Community College and Glen Rock High School, where she chaired the math department.
The Fair Lawn resident — the 2003 recipient of the governor’s award for best teacher —has been an educator for some 36 years, spending the school year teaching math and the summers teaching drama.
Among other subjects, Heller, a graduate of the High School of Performing Arts in New York City, has taught advanced calculus and statistics. Dubbed a “master teacher” — “When you have taught for a while, that’s what they call you,” she said — she has also written a statistics review book.
“I wanted to be an actress,” she said, “but my father said it was not the right profession for a nice Jewish girl. He said I should teach and then do acting in the summer.”
Listening to her father, she spent 13 years directing productions at Camp Hillel in Monticello.
Now, at Ma’ayanot, she is able to combine her two passions, serving as chair of the school’s math department as well as its musical director.
“A musical is a wonderful outlet for girls to express themselves,” said Heller, who last year created the Ron Heller Award for outstanding graduating seniors, in memory of her late husband.
“It’s like a scholarship for excellence in drama,” she said.
Recipients each receive a trophy and $100, presented by the Ronald Heller Memorial Fund.
“I should raise it to $136,” she joked, noting that her original intention was for girls to use the money to buy a good theater ticket.
Heller is passionate about the importance of the theater arts.
“It gives the kids a sense of community and team work as well as an element of excitement. They learn how to sing, how to interpret a song, and Broadway movements. It’s really a team sport.”
Rehearsals take place after school and during lunch.
“It’s very popular,” said Heller. “We had 34 students involved in ‘Annie.’” On Dec. 23, the students will perform “Beauty and the Beast.”
The musical director said, “Everyone who tries out gets some part,” if not acting, then operating lights and curtains — skills she teaches them. She is also involved in staging and choreography.
According to Heller, math knowledge is helpful in producing plays.
“There’s a kind of precision necessary in organizing rehearsal schedules, marketing, and selling tickets,” she said, adding that “math can be very creative too.”
She noted that students who are in both her math classes and her theater productions “work harder in both. It fosters a tremendous bond…. The girl who played Tevye in math class gave as much energy and dedication on stage as in the classroom.”
Recalling her days teaching drama at camp, Heller said, “For many Jewish kids, this was the first musical comedy they ever did. They didn’t even know how to stand on the stage.” She said that one camper wrote her a “beautiful letter” afterward, thanking her for the experience.
“Teaching is a calling,” she said. “Whether teaching math or teaching drama, you work with the kids and see them grow. It’s tremendously gratifying.” She likened the role of a director to that of a teacher administering an exam.
“You’ve coached them and now they’re on their own. They always rise to the occasion. It’s quite spectacular.”
Heller noted that Ma’ayanot’s policy of excluding fathers from the audience — fathers can hug their actor/daughters before and after each performance but they must watch the show in another room, where it is simulcast — has been particularly helpful to her, as a widow.
“Having no men in the room has made it easier,” she said, recalling that her husband used to attend each of her shows. “I think God helped me find this kind of supportive environment.”
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Print![]() | Thomas Buergenthal as a child, left, and Judge Thomas Buergenthal Max Koot Photos courtesy of Museum of Jewish Heritage |
Judge Thomas Buergenthal, recently retired American judge from the International Court of Justice in The Hague, will launch his memoir “A Lucky Child: A Memoir of Surviving Auschwitz as a Young Boy” (Little, Brown and Company, 2010), on Sunday, Sept. 19 at 2:30 p.m., at the Museum of Jewish Heritage – A Living Memorial to the Holocaust in New York City. Museum director David G. Marwell will interview Buergenthal. Tickets are $5 but free for members. Call (646)437-4202 or www.mjhnyc.org.
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PrintA used book sale to benefit INTRA — Israel National Therapeutic Riding Association — a non-profit organization to aid children with special needs and soldiers with PTSD, post-traumatic stress disorder, will be held on Sunday, Sept. 12, from noon to 6 p.m., at 1012 Country Club Drive in Teaneck. The event is a bat mitzvah chessed project. The rain date is Monday, Sept. 6. For information, call Sheryl at (973) 865-2334 or www.intra.org.il.
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PrintThe Jewish Cultural School and Society in West Orange will hold an open house for families during its regular weekly classes from 10:30 a.m. to noon Sunday, Sept. 19. Parents, children, and friends of all faiths are welcome to visit classes for first- through seventh-graders. Bagels and coffee will be served at the program in the JCC MetroWest’s Early Childhood Center. See .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address).
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PrintThe Yom Kippur fast is not intended to be a picnic. But fasters pleading for repentance don’t have to make themselves sick over it either, say health and nutrition experts.
There is a plethora of advice out there for those who want to have an easier time of it come Kol Nidrei, says Shannon Gononsky, a Teaneck-based dietician who observes the Yom Kippur fast religiously.
Fasting doesn’t have to be hard on your body if you prepare properly, she says.
Indeed, as Yom Kippur approaches, thoughts turn to repentance, charity, and, the intimidating mission of abstaining from food and drink for 25 hours.
The Jewish Day of Atonement begins this year on Friday, Sept. 17, before sundown, and ends the following night after nightfall with the Neilah prayer service.
The larger issues surrounding Yom Kippur deal with the questions of forgiveness and repentance. But then there are the smaller ones — like will we survive the fast without a migraine and nausea? Will the hunger pains be manageable? Gononsky and other experts say it can be done.
But first, they have a few caveats for would-be fasters. The restrictions on eating and drinking apply only to those in good health who are over bar and bat mitzvah age. Most rabbis agree that anyone whose health could be seriously threatened by fasting should not fast. If a person has a medical condition, is pregnant, or needs to take medication, it’s best to consult a doctor and/or rabbi, medical experts advise.
Preparation for the fast should begin in the days or weeks before it starts, according to experts.
For example, if you consume several cups of coffee a day (or any other caffeinated drinks), prepare yourself for the fast by tapering off your caffeine consumption at least a week before Yom Kippur, says L’via Weisinger, a Teaneck nurse. “Don’t try to go cold turkey or else you may end up with a terrible headache.”
Also, drinking a lot of coffee before Kol Nidre is not a great idea because it will cause you to lose a lot of water before the fast, she says.
It is also important to begin hydrating yourself several days before the fast. “Don’t wait until the fast is about to start to drink a lot of water,” said Weisinger. “Drink extra water for several days before.”
A pre-fast meal should ideally consist of complex carbohydrates, such as breads and pastas, said Gononsky.
She cites the finding of a study published in the September issue of the Israel Medical Association Journal that “a protein-rich meal creates the most discomfort and side effects during a fast.”
Water is better conserved when one eats a meal high in complex carbohydrates, such as rice, pasta, beans, and other pulses. When protein breaks down, however, more water is excreted from the body, she says.
For her pre-fast meal, Gononsky cooks up a starchy potato soup, light grilled fish, couscous, and steamed squash. “The key to a good fast for us is that potato soup,” she says. “It really builds up your glycogen stores which are the way that you store up fuel as carbohydrates.”
Experts share pre-fast tips
• The pre-fast meal menu should be selected carefully: Emphasize carbohydrates. Stay away from high protein and fat-filled foods. Best choices are breads, pasta, potatoes, cereal, vegetables, fruits, nuts, and rice.
• Eat small meals throughout the day before the fast but do not gorge yourself – it will only make you feel hungrier later.
• Include soup in your pre-Yom Kippur meal. It helps keep you hydrated and makes you feel full.
• Avoid caffeine. Heavy coffee drinks can avoid the dreaded “withdrawal” headache by slowly tapering off coffee consumption over the week leading up to the fast day. One trick caffeine addicts can try is to brew mixtures of regular and decaffeinated coffee, increasing the proportion of decaf as you progress.
• Avoid eating chocolate or drinking alcohol (these cause you to lose too much water) and try to minimize salty or spicy foods that will increase your thirst.
• In addition to drinking plenty of water, Gononsky advises incorporating fruits and vegetables, which have a high water content, into your pre-fast meal.
Tips for during the fast
• Spend your day in the synagogue; the refrigerator won’t tempt you, everyone else there will be fasting so they won’t distract you with thoughts of food, and you can reflect on repentance, which is the essence of the day anyway.
• Try to stay in cool areas and avoid direct sunlight so you remain hydrated and don’t perspire.
• Many people have a tradition of wearing white on Yom Kippur. The added benefit is that light-colored clothing helps keep you cooler.
• Avoid strenuous calorie-burning exercise. While walking to synagogue, take it slow.
Post-fast tips
• Do not eat too much or too quickly when you break your fast. Your stomach will not need much to feel full. And if you eat too much, you will feel sick.
• The best foods to break your fast on are simple foods such as: crackers, juice or milk, and dairy foods. Drink a lot of water and avoid salty foods, since you will need to replace your fluids.
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JERUSALEM – By now it would seem that Israelis are accustomed to calls for boycotts of Israeli products and institutions.
Many, however, may have been caught off guard this summer when those calls came from inside Israel.
In two separate incidents over the past few weeks, Israelis issued a call for boycott or announced a boycott of an Israeli institution for political reasons. One protest came from the right, directed at an Israeli university with allegedly “anti-Zionist” professors on staff; one came from the left, directed at an Israeli theater in the west bank.
The boycotts from within may mark a new front in Israel’s political battles.
For the time being, mainstream Israeli figures are condemning both boycotts.
“Culture is a bridge in society, and political disputes should be left outside cultural life and art,” Israel’s minister of culture and sport, Limor Livnat, said in response to the theater boycott.
The latest boycott call came after several Israeli theater companies announced plans to stage productions at a new theater in Ariel, a Jewish city of 20,000 in the west bank. The $10 million cultural center in Ariel, which was built partly with government funding, is scheduled to open Nov. 8. It will be the first major theater in a Jewish settlement, most of which are smaller bedroom communities.
As the theater schedule came to light, nearly 60 Israeli theater professionals signed a petition last weekend saying they would refuse to perform at the new venue or in any west bank settlement. On Tuesday, about 150 academics and authors signed a letter supporting the petition.
“We will not take part in any kind of cultural activity beyond the Green Line, take part in discussions and seminars, or lecture in any kind of academic setting in these settlements,” the letter said.
“My contract with the theater says explicitly that I am obligated to perform within the State of Israel — and Ariel is not part of the state,” director and actor Oded Kotler, a boycott petition signer, told Army Radio.
The Ariel boycott call follows on the heels of a call to boycott Ben-Gurion University issued by the campus group Im Tirtzu, which says that professors in the university’s department of politics and government harbor anti-Zionist biases and are silencing students’ Zionist viewpoints.
Neve Gordon, the head of the university’s department of politics and government, has called for a “social, economic, and political boycott of Israel.”
University President Rivka Carmi condemned Gordon’s call but has not dismissed the department chief.
“The fact that I condemn his statements doesn’t mean I can fire him,” she told the Jerusalem Post. “You cannot fire someone for their political opinions.”
University spokesman Amir Rozenblit said that the university complies with the quality and content requirements of the Israeli Council for Higher Education, and that it hires faculty members based solely on their professional and academic qualifications, not political opinions.
Im Tirtzu’s threat to approach Ben-Gurion University donors for failing to dismiss its “anti-Zionist” staff prompted some Im Tirtzu supporters in the United States to rethink their support for the organization.
Meanwhile, Ben-Gurion University condemned the boycott call by Im Tirtzu.
“Just as university president Prof. Rivka Carmi harshly condemned those who called for an international boycott of Israel, so too the university denounces any group that calls for a boycott of any Israeli university based on the opinions of its academic faculty members,” Rozenblit said.
This week, the Israeli media were buzzing with opinion-makers debating the Ariel affair.
In Haaretz, columnist Akiva Eldar suggested that artists who oppose Israel’s presence in the west bank use the opportunity to stage performances for settlers that would prompt them to think twice about the occupation. Another of the daily’s columnists, Gideon Levy, countered that Israeli theaters would be boycotted internationally if they forced actors to perform in the west bank.
Many voiced outrage that government funding goes to the theaters whose members are now calling for the boycott.
“The theaters that suck up the state’s money owe their dose of culture to the taxpayers,” Eitan Haber wrote in Ynet. “So, first get on stage and perform, and only later you can head to anti-settlement protests if you wish, even in Ariel.”
On Sunday, the Israeli prime minister weighed in.
“The last thing we need at this time is to be under such an attack — I mean this attempt at a boycott from within,” Benjamin Netanyahu said. “I do not want to deny the right of any person, of any artist, to hold to a political opinion. He or she can express this opinion. But we, as a government, do not need to fund boycotts. We do not have to support boycotts directed at Israeli citizens in any manner whatsoever.”
Netanyahu, Livnat, and other government ministers have threatened to sanction theaters that refuse to perform in west bank venues.
The Habima, Khan, Beersheba, and Cameri theaters are all scheduled to stage productions in Ariel. The theaters each received about $2.5 million to $3 million from the ministry of culture and sport, according to an official in Livnat’s office. The ministry was not involved in funding the theater in Ariel, which is located about 10 miles inside the west bank and is the fifth-largest Jewish settlement in the territory.
The theaters issued a collective statement saying that the scheduled Ariel productions will go on, but that they would “respect the political opinions of their actors.” The theaters are consulting with their legal advisers on how to proceed with artists who refuse to perform in the west bank, a culture ministry official told JTA.
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“Shifting the Gaze: Feminism and Painting,” on display at The Jewish Museum from Sept. 12 to Jan. 30, includes more than 30 paintings and several sculptures and decorative objects drawn from the museum’s collection and some on loan. The artists represented include Judy Chicago, Louise Fishman, Leon Golub, Eva Hesse, Deborah Kass, Lee Krasner, Louise Nevelson, Elaine Reichek, Miriam Schapiro, Joan Snyder, Nancy Spero, and Hannah Wilke.
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PrintWASHINGTON – The Obama administration is backing a proposal by Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu that he and Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas meet every two weeks during peace talks.
“Prime Minister Netanyahu has stated privately and publicly that he hopes to meet with President Abbas every two weeks,” George Mitchell, the senior administration official brokering talks, said in a briefing Tuesday, two days before the formal start of direct talks. “We think that is a sensible approach.”
Abbas has not yet said whether he will commit to such intensive talks. Netanyahu and Abbas were scheduled to meet on Thursday for their first direct meeting brokered by U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton, which is set to last three hours.
The sides have yet to set the parameters for talks; U.S. officials were in intensive efforts Tuesday to peg them down by Thursday.
“We want to see not just a successful process going forward but an understanding that we will be going forward,” P.J. Crowley, the State Department spokesman, said in a separate briefing.
Mitchell said the United States planned to be “actively involved” in the process but would not be present at every meeting.
“The United States will play an active and sustained role in the process,” he said. “That does not mean that the United States must be physically represented in every single meeting.”
U.S. officials said they would insist that Netanyahu address settlements during the meetings and consider extending the 10-month partial moratorium he imposed on settlement expansion that lapses Sept. 26.
Abbas has said he will walk out if Netanyahu does not sustain the moratorium. Netanyahu is under pressure from hard-liners in his cabinet to restart building.
In his briefing, Mitchell held out the possibility that Hamas, the terrorist group that controls the Gaza Strip and sees Abbas’ government as illegitimate, might yet join the talks.
“We do not expect Hamas to play a role in this immediate process, but as Secretary of State Clinton and I have said publicly many times in the Middle East and the United States, we welcome the full participation by Hamas and all relevant parties once they comply with the basic requirements of democracy and nonviolence that are a prerequisite,” he said.
Mitchell, who successfully steered Northern Ireland talks in the 1990s, noted that talks were under way for 15 months before Sinn Fein, the Irish Republican Army’s political arm, reversed policy and agreed to similar terms.
A Hamas leader, however, insisted that violence was the only path forward for the Palestinians.
“As a Palestinian leader, I tell my people that the Palestinian state and Palestinian rights will not be accomplished through this peace process,” Khaled Meshaal, who is based in Damascus, told a Huffington Post blogger in an interview. “But it will be accomplished by force, and it will be accomplished by resistance.”
Meshaal confirmed that his officials have been in indirect talks with American officials.
“We know very well that some non-U.S. officials we meet with report to the administration,” he said. “We are interested in meeting with the Americans and the West, but we do not beg for these meetings and we are not in a hurry.”
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PrintRobert M., 58, worked for a news organization in the San Francisco Bay area until September 2008, when he lost his job in layoffs that eliminated 15 percent of the company’s workforce nationwide.
Robert had eight months worth of savings. They ran out in six months.
After 14 months of unemployment, in December 2009 Robert turned to San Francisco’s Jewish Family and Children’s Services for help with rent, utilities, and, hardest of all, food.
“It was gut-wrenching,” said Robert, who asked that his last name not be used. “I’d contributed a lot to charities over the years, including JFCS. My wife and I gave to the food bank regularly. Now we were on the other side.”
It sounds apocryphal: Former donors to a Jewish charity reduced to seeking help from that very same organization. But as more and more Jews are caught up in the recession, now two years running, food banks across the United States are reporting the same phenomenon. Middle-class Jews, professional Jews, young people with families — they’re out of work, their savings are gone, and they are showing up for help at Jewish social service agencies.
With unemployment extensions about to run out for many, the problem is expected to worsen.
“In addition to the poor and the working poor, which we’ve always served, there’s been a substantial increase the past 18 months among the middle and upper-middle class who are not in a position to make it, yet are not poor enough to get benefits” from government, said William Rapfogel, CEO and executive director of the Metropolitan Council on Jewish Poverty in New York.
Even so, the myth persists that Jews are affluent.
“There is denial of the degree of need in the Jewish community,” said Barbara Levy Gradet, executive director of Jewish Community Services in Baltimore. “We have young families as well as retired people looking for work. This is an equal-opportunity recession.”
The Met Council in New York, which serves the largest number of Jewish poor in the nation, distributes food packages at 60 sites in New York City’s five boroughs, part of the $3.5 million in food aid it gives out every year.
Fifteen thousand households receive the packages — up from 9,000 a year-and-a-half ago — and virtually all are Jewish. Whereas before the recession the Met Council saw a lot of haredi Orthodox families and the elderly, there has been a dramatic increase over the last two years in non-haredi Orthodox families and the non-observant, Rapfogel said.
One of the Met Council’s new clients is a 53-year-old grandmother who had an administrative job in a Jewish day school but was laid off in June 2009. She’s still collecting unemployment, which she supplemented a few times with food vouchers from the Met Council.
“I’m looking to work,” she told JTA. “I’m not looking to collect Medicaid or food stamps. It’s very hard when you have to depend on your children to help you. It’s not a good feeling.”
It’s impossible to know just how many Jewish poor there are in America. A 2004 study by the federation umbrella organization — now known as the Jewish Federations of North America — found 730,000 Jewish individuals, or about 15 percent of the country’s Jewish population, living in economic distress either below or slightly above the federal poverty standard. That was before the current recession.
The federal poverty guidelines themselves are woefully outdated, say many experts in the field. They are set at $10,830 annually for an individual and $22,050 annually for a family of four.
“Today, $10,000 does not seem livable,” said Joshua Protas, vice president and Washington director of the Jewish Council on Public Affairs.
The JCPA is working in Washington to prevent proposed cuts to the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, or SNAP (formerly known as the federal Food Stamps program), as well as the child nutrition reauthorization bill, which provides 19.4 million children with free or subsidized school lunches, among other things.
“That includes a substantial Jewish population,” Protas said.
Ironically, the U.S. Senate recently passed its version of the bill that proposed funding in part by making additional cuts to SNAP. The JCPA is trying to head off similar cannibalization in the House of Representatives version of the bill.
In addition, the Washington office of the Jewish Federations is working to prevent a proposed 25 percent reduction in the Emergency Food and Shelter Program, which provides supplemental economic relief to millions of Americans through faith-based community programs and public providers. The cuts would be for fiscal year 2011, which begins Oct. 1.
But many Jews in desperate economic straits fall outside the purview of these federal programs. For them, the private Jewish charities are their only lifeline.
In Chicago, 42,000 people — 20 percent of the region’s Jewish population — received emergency food assistance through the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago between June 2008 and July 2010. That represents a 24 percent increase from the previous two years.
In another twist, Jews in their 50s and early 60s are trying to access the agency’s older adult services program, which traditionally serves much older individuals.
San Francisco’s Jewish Family and Children’s Services, which serves about 65,000 mainly Jewish individuals a year, had one food pantry two years ago. Now the organization has five, one in each county it covers.
Executive director Anita Friedman says two-thirds of the program’s food clients signed up within the past year.
“There has always been a small group of chronically poor in our community, but the tsunami is the thousands who have recently lost their jobs,” she said. “Insurance, banking, finance, the tourist industry, anything related to real estate — all these have been really hurt.”
In Baltimore, Jewish Community Services helped 25,000 of the region’s 90,000 Jews over the past year with everything from food aid to employment assistance. The usual short-term programs of one or two months are no longer enough, Gradet says. Clients now need help for six months to a year.
In 2007, the organization spent $750,000 in housing and food assistance. In the past year it spent $1.2 million.
Gradet says former government workers — attorneys, money managers, and other white-collar professionals — have been showing up asking for help.
Thankfully, say those in charge of these food programs, the Jewish community has stepped up to help out with donations and volunteering their time. In Baltimore, a recent half-million-dollar matching grant from a local donor was quickly matched by other contributions from the community. Other cities report similar gestures.
“The Jewish community is very sensitive to these issues and is very generous,” Friedman said. “It’s a blessing.”
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![]() | The Metropolitan Council on Jewish Poverty delivered Rosh HaShanah food packages throughout New York City in September 2009 Roy Somech/Photography by Roy |
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PrintPARIS – With a preponderance of voices from the international media, human rights groups, the French clergy, and some politicians denouncing French President Nicolas Sarkozy for fueling negative ethnic stereotypes with his new immigrant-focused security crackdown, many Jewish community representatives in France are taking a more measured stance.
In July, Sarkozy launched some security-related initiatives that included a proposal stripping French nationality from foreign-born individuals who attack police officers and starting a program to rapidly deport Roma — or Gypsy — migrants to Romania and Bulgaria. The French leader also is dismantling hundreds of illegal Roma homes in shantytowns in France.
Sarkozy says the government is merely upholding French and European law, not “stigmatizing.” But critics say Sarkozy is pitting communities against one another and violating the French constitution. Some have gone so far as to compare Sarkozy’s policies with the Nazis’ treatment of the Jews, calling it a tactic for gaining support from the far-right National Front Party.
Jewish community organizational leaders have tried to take a more diplomatic course regarding the controversial policies of a president who, as interior minister during a wave of anti-Semitism in France in 2002-04, took a hard line against those who posed a security risk to French Jews.
At first the community leaders sat out what has evolved into a major political storm for the government. Now some are responding, but their divergent responses reflect the divisions among French Jews about the efficacy of Sarkozy’s proposals.
France’s main Jewish umbrella group, the CRIF, has not put out any statement on Sarkozy’s new policies. But in an interview with JTA, CRIF President Richard Prasquier said he supports the idea of expelling illegal Roma from the country and that the idea of denaturalizing certain foreign-born criminals is “understandable” if they are guilty of attacking officers.
Prasquier warned, however, against allowing prejudice to develop against Roma migrants who are French citizens.
“When we become French citizens, it must be merited,” he said.
In explaining Jewish reticence to weigh in on the matter, Marc Knobel, the editor for CRIF’s newsletter, said that “Jewish institutions are generally more discreet when handling questions that mostly concern the French.”
The tepid reaction from Jewish officialdom has upset some Jews here.
“I think it’s the role of the Jewish community to be heard,” said Patrick Klugman, a member of the CRIF director’s committee and co-founder of JCall, a European-wide group that supports pressuring Israel into cutting a two-state deal with the Palestinians.
Jewish leaders traditionally were “reminders of the principles of equality,” Klugman said. Now, “I notice that almost all of French society has criticized Sarkozy, except the Jewish community.”
Catholic leaders have not been silent as Sarkozy has dismantled Roma shantytowns and deported Roma.
With Sarkozy’s security program, “an unhealthy climate has developed in our country,” André Vingt-Trois, the archbishop of Paris, told French radio last week.
One Catholic priest returned his national medal of honor to protest Sarkozy’s policies.
The European Commission against Racism and Intolerance said it is “deeply concerned” about the treatment of Roma in France and warned that Sarkozy’s “government has taken action stigmatizing Roma migrants” who “are held collectively responsible for criminal offenses.”
“Government policies or legislative proposals that are grounded in discrimination on ethnic grounds are impermissible and run counter to legal obligations binding on all Council of Europe member States,” the commission said in a statement.
France’s chief rabbi, Gilles Bernheim, was more circumspect.
“This affair is not easy,” he said last week. “It requires both moderation and firmness.”
While Bernheim said he hoped decisions on security “are made case by case, and that we never stigmatize a community,” he also voiced support for Sarkozy’s tough-cop proposals.
“I haven’t forgotten that there’s a real war that has been established against the police, against the forces of order, and when I see the violence that is exercised against the representatives of public order, I tell myself that we also need firmness to react to that,” he said.
Like Jewish officials, most official Muslim community representatives, traditionally reluctant to publicly comment on French policy that does not refer directly to their community, also have stayed quiet about Sarkozy’s security plans.
The new security measures were announced following two separate incidents of violent skirmishes between youth, believed to be partly of immigrant origin, and the police, plus a case involving violence by some Roma migrants who appeared to be French citizens.
Sarkozy’s new policy proposals include denaturalizing those who attack public officials if they had become French fewer than 10 years before committing the crime, and denying automatic citizenship to immigrant youth approaching the age of eligibility but who are “anchored” in criminal activity.
He is also dismantling Roma encampments that include people of Roma origin who are French citizens and has proposed legislation that will make it more difficult for deported Roma to return to France.
Roma have been subject to discrimination throughout Europe for decades, and hundreds of thousands were exterminated in Nazi death camps. Roma rights groups say Sarkozy’s new policies paint them as criminals.
Alain Finkielkraut, a leading French Jewish intellectual, said the attacks against Sarkozy’s policies are politically motivated and overreactions.
“I’m happy that for the moment the Jewish community has refused to give in to this critical rush of enthusiasm,” he said, adding that the current media storm had “lost sight” of Sarkozy’s intention: to curb crime.
Depicting France as fascist and comparing Sarkozy’s policies to the Vichy government’s Nazi collaboration is “shameful,” Finkielkraut said, adding that he does not see the security measures as racist in themselves.
“The whole world is revolting against Sarkozy,” he said, “but what is really dismal is the continual elevation of violence in France.”
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![]() | This Roma camp in Pantin, north of Paris, received an eviction notice at the end of July as part of the French president’s crackdown on illegal Gypsy shantytowns. Devorah Lauter |
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PrintPITIGLIANO, Italy – In Italy, where there are only about 25,000 affiliated Jews in a population of 60 million, most Italians have never knowingly met a Jew.
“It’s unfortunate,” said the Italian Jewish activist Sira Fatucci, “but in Italy Jews and the Jewish experience are often mostly known through the Holocaust.”
Fatucci is the national coordinator in Italy for the annual European Day of Jewish Culture, an annual transborder celebration of Jewish traditions and creativity that takes place in more than 20 countries on the continent on the first Sunday of September — this year, Sept. 5.
Synagogues, Jewish museums, and even ritual baths and cemeteries are open to the public, and hundreds of seminars, exhibits, lectures, book fairs, art installations, concerts, performances, and guided tours are offered.
![]() | Tourists shop in a store in the former Jewish district that sells kosher wine, matzoh, Jewish pastries, and souvenirs. Ruth Ellen Gruber |
The main goal is to educate the non-Jewish public about Jews and Judaism in order to demystify the Jewish world and combat anti-Jewish prejudice.
“What we are trying to do is to show the living part of Judaism — to show life,” Fatucci said. “What we want to do is to use culture as an antidote to ignorance and anti-Semitism.”
Some 700 people flock to Culture Day events each year in Pitigliano, a rust-colored hill town in southern Tuscany that once had such a flourishing Jewish community that it was known as Little Jerusalem.
Most local Jews moved away before World War II, and today only four Jews live here in a total population of 4,000. But in recent years the medieval ghetto area has become an important local attraction. The town produces kosher wine, and a new shop sells souvenir packets of matzoh and Jewish pastries.
Culture Day events here include kosher food and wine-tastings, guided tours, art exhibits, and an open-air klezmer concert.
“There’s a lot of ignorance, but a lot of curiosity about Jews,” said Claudia Elmi, who works at Pitigliano’s Jewish museum, which opened in the 1990s and now attracts 22,000 to 24,000 visitors a year — the vast majority non-Jews.
“But the Jews were seen as closed, or even physically closed off,” she said. “The open doors of the Day of Culture are very important.”
Tourists line up to tour the Jewish museum and the synagogue, a 16th-century gem that fell into ruin following World War II and was rebuilt and reopened in 1995. They make their way down steep stairs into the former mikvah and matzoh bakery, which are located in rough-hewn subterranean chambers carved into the solid rock.
“We didn’t know anything about Judaism before coming here,” said Rosanna and Paolo, tourists from Padova who visited Pitiligano’s Jewish sites a week before Culture Day. “We learned a lot here, particularly about the religious rituals and kosher food.”
Now in its 11th year, Culture Day is loosely coordinated by the European Council of Jewish Communities, B’nai B’rith Europe, and the Red de Juderias, a Jewish tourism route linking 15 Spanish cities.
Countries participating this year include Belgium, Bosnia-Herzegovina, Croatia, France, Germany, Britain, Italy, Holland, Norway, Poland, Romania, Serbia, Slovakia, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, and Switzerland. This year’s theme is “Art and Judaism.”
Each country makes its own programs and depends on local resources and volunteers to host, plan, and carry out activities. Thus in some countries, only a few events take place: Norway will have a klezmer concert and lecture in Oslo; Bosnia has only an art exhibit in Sarajevo.
Elsewhere, a varied feast may stretch for several days. In Britain, this year’s activities last until Sept. 15 and include dozens of events in London and more than 20 other cities.
Jewish art “is both distinctive and universal” said Lena Stanley-Clamp, the director of the London-based European Association for Jewish Culture. “It certainly speaks to and is enjoyed by people of all backgrounds.”
Italy is by far the European Day of Jewish Culture’s most enthusiastic participant. Thanks to Fatucci and her army of volunteers and communal organizers, it has grown to become a high-profile fixture on the late-summer calendar, with events and activities up and down the Italian boot.
Last year’s events attracted 62,000 people — about one-third the total number who attended Jewish Culture Day events around the continent and about twice the number of Jews in Italy.
This year, activities are being staged in 62 towns, cities, and villages, including many places — like Pitigliano — where few or no Jews live.
“There is a great curiosity about Jews and Jewish culture here, so the opportunity to engage in a Jewish cultural activity is very attractive,” Fatucci said. “The Day of Jewish Culture became a reference point for this.”
Part of the success, she said, was due to the fact that Culture Day in Italy is so well organized and publicized. Jewish communities work closely with public and private institutions, and the event receives government support and recognition.
But, Fatucci added, Jewish heritage in Italy encompasses a remarkably rich and varied array of treasures — Roman-era Jewish catacombs in Rome, medieval mikvahs, baroque synagogues, and the historic ghetto and centuries-old Jewish cemetery in Venice.
“Italy is the country of art, par excellence,” Fatucci said. “But in many places, people have lived side by side with fragments of Jewish culture without knowing anything about them — or even knowing they were there.”
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PrintIn the past several months I have had some version of the following exchange several times. I tell a friend that I’ve just finished a book on repentance, and they respond that they find the subject of forgiveness very interesting. It’s psychologically so much healthier to forgive than to hold on to resentments, they say, signaling that they appreciate the importance of the subject.
The confusion between repentance and forgiveness is widespread, it seems, and also very telling.
Forgiveness, I explain, is what we are called on to do when we have been wronged by others. It is about our willingness to be generous and compassionate with those whose behavior was hurtful and unwarranted.
First PersonRepentance, by contrast, is what we are called on to do when we have wronged others. It involves confession of our transgressions, feeling remorseful, making an apology, seeking forgiveness (hence the confusion in the minds of so many), offering restitution, soul-searching, and, ultimately, uprooting old patterns of behavior from our lives.
In these weeks leading up to Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur, it seems that the need to understand what repentance is and why it matters is more urgent than ever.
Forgiveness is difficult and rare, to be sure, but I want to suggest that engaging in real repentance is far more difficult, more easily misunderstood, and far less frequently practiced. Despite the many dozens of sermons that our rabbis have given on the subject of repentance, the process of repenting remains something of a mystery to most Jews (and, of course, not only Jews). Many never take seriously the need for repentance. Others start out on the path of repentance but give up when they encounter one of the many obstacles along the way.
![]() | “Repentance: The Meaning and Practice of Teshuvah” looks at the implications on morality and relationships of taking responsibility for one’s actions Jewish Lights Publishing |
Repentance, in our time, has become a lost art. Consider several examples, which I suspect all of us will find familiar.
The family member who regularly deflects any suggestion that he or she has done something to hurt others by insisting repeatedly that it’s really someone else’s fault;
The boss who can acknowledge making mistakes but can never quite say the words “I’m sorry,” or worse, can say the words but not express genuine remorse;
The spouse who cheats on a partner and apologizes profusely, but who is utterly unprepared to do the hard work of restoring the trust that he or she has undermined;
The friend who has a habit of speaking harshly or acting impulsively, but lacks the self-awareness to explore the real roots of those dysfunctional patterns of behavior;
The person who has promised repeatedly to reform her ways — to give up smoking, to make more time for her children, to be less judgmental of others —yet continually falls back into old patterns.
In light of these examples — and hardly a day goes by when we don’t encounter others — we do well to ask, What makes genuine repentance so difficult? And why should we even bother trying?
Repentance, what Jewish tradition has called teshuvah, “turning” or “returning,” entails nothing less than a radical transformation of our selves and our relationship to others. It requires profound psychological self-awareness, which includes both recognizing our own moral blind spots and exploring the character traits that cause our moral lapses in the first place.
It demands that we take full responsibility for our behavior, without hesitation or equivocation, and then take action to undo the effects of that behavior on others. And if this were not enough, Judaism teaches that the process of teshuvah is never really finished. Each time we have an opportunity to make the same mistake again, we need to renounce the past and choose a different path.
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So doing teshuvah is literally an endless process. Forgiving others for their transgressions against us is a piece of cake by comparison.
There are many obstacles on the path to true repentance: ego, self-deception, dishonesty, and stubbornness, to name just a few. Because we all want the approval of those we love, it is tempting to cover up or minimize any actions that might cause us to lose their affection. Because we all know that others expect us to make amends when we hurt them, it is tempting to feign remorse and utter empty words of apology.
But counterfeit repentance, like counterfeit currency, has no value. We can’t restore our integrity or repair our relationships with others by merely pretending to repent; there are no shortcuts to an ethical life.
All of which explains why genuine repentance is so rare. The work of examining our selves and repairing the relationships we have broken is arduous and always has been.
The culture in which we live only compounds the difficulties. The expectation that we can find a quick fix for every problem that arises makes us less prepared to engage in the long, morally demanding work of teshuvah, and even less inclined to try. When virtual friends take the place of real relationships, we lose the impetus to cultivate the sort of emotional honesty that teshuvah requires of us.
The costs of ignoring the work of repentance are not easily quantifiable, but the evidence is all around us. We see it in the lives of public figures — politicians and corporate executives — who get caught in some deceitful or fraudulent behavior, and then baldly deny it.
We see it on daytime television shows, where people confess their transgressions before a live audience for their entertainment, never displaying a hint of the contrition or soul- searching that is the mark of repentance.
Most of all, we know it in those quiet moments in our own lives when we recognize that we are not living up to our own moral standards, yet don’t know how to restore our own sense of wholeness and integrity.
The ultimate benefit of doing teshuvah is that it offers us a way to overcome our past precisely because we have confronted and taken full responsibility for it. It enables us to escape the sense of guilt — in some cases, even despair — with which many of us live.
In its place, we come to live with self-acceptance and hope because we know that moral renewal is always a possibility. We may even discover, as the ancient rabbis taught, that through repentance our transgressions can be transformed into merits. The rewards of doing teshuvah are commensurate with the effort we expend.
This year when we celebrate the Ten Days of Repentance, which are the holiest days on the Jewish calendar, we would do well to focus on what repentance is and what it is not. Surely it is easier to think of this as a time to forgive others for their transgressions against us. But it is far more rewarding to remember that this time is really a gift, an opportunity to engage in searching moral introspection about the ways in which we have harmed others and so failed to be our best selves.
Tradition has laid out the path to follow, as well as how we can work with our internal resistance and what we stand to gain in the process. All that we require is an accurate understanding of what is required of us and the will to begin anew.
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What can Tiger and Toyoda teach us about teshuvah?
With Selichot, a service of repentance-centered prayers said in preparation for the High Holidays, coming on the night of Sept. 4, is there anything we can learn about saying “I’m sorry” from public figures?
The airwaves have been full of apologies this year. But unlike soon-to-be former BP Chairman Tony Hayward or South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, we usually don’t say “selach li,” “forgive me,” on TV in front of a world audience.
The community that does hear our Ashamnus is more immediate, even intimate, as we often rise to say these words of confession among family and friends, even the people we may have wronged.
Why compare ourselves to public persons? After all, we didn’t wreck the Gulf of Mexico, create poorly engineered automobiles, or destroy our relationships by seeking additional sexual partners.
At least mostly.
Most of us discover that even though the wrongs we commit never come with front-page headlines, in our mind’s eye they can read just as large.
So what can we learn from these staged and scripted, spin-doctored apologies? That for shul on Yom Kippur we should toss the traditional white and instead don apologetic blue? Or perhaps learn to pull an easily readable “I’m sorry” face?
Behind all the staging and showmanship, there still seems to me a kernel of kavanah, of right intention, in these apologies. Some attempts, like Sanford’s, often fall short, seemingly compiling a public “al chait” of how not to say you’re sorry. But we can find insight in the attempts and learn from their mistakes.
“I have been unfaithful to my wife,” Sanford declared before delving into the detailed how and why of his indiscretions.
In contrast to this public confession, Selichot prayers are not much interested in specifics; in fact they are TMI (Too Much Information) sensitive. Standing in synagogue, thankfully, we are not asked to offer up personal details.
Since Judaism has no word for “sin,” the declarations in Ashamnu recited late on a Selichot night, in comparison to the governor’s specifics, ask us to acknowledge collectively where we have missed the mark. We say instead, “We have been perverse. We have been wicked.... We have used sex exploitatively.”
Furthermore, in his book “Living Judaism,” Rabbi Wayne Dosick relates that according to the Talmud, “God forgives transgressions committed against him, but offenses against another human being must first be forgiven by the injured party.”
We don’t know what Sanford said to his family before going on the air. Perhaps he sought forgiveness from his wife and family. Regardless, I know that when I screw up, independent of TV coverage, I have real work to do.
Tiger Woods’ admission of a life of philandering and deception, even if you think golf is a total snooze, probably stirred you awake this year.
“I know I have bitterly disappointed all of you,” he said in a televised apology.
“For all that I have done, I am sorry,” he said in an attempt of teshuvah, which literally means “return,” and in Judaism describes the concept of repentance.
Further into the apology, Woods even sounded Ashamnu-esque: “I was unfaithful. I never thought about who I was hurting. I felt I was entitled. I was wrong. I was foolish. I brought this down on myself.”
Liturgically, what I found lacking was the key summation of humility that is said following Ashamnu: “We have abandoned excellent commandments and judgments, and it has not turned out well with us.”
For its apology, British Petroleum chose a 60-second commercial to say sorry for environmentally ravaging the Gulf of Mexico. What was it about Hayward’s voice that didn’t sound apologetic? I don’t think it was just his accent or stiff demeanor.
On Selichot, which means forgiveness, when we rise to say “Shema Kolenu,” “hear our cry,” the tenor of our voice or even our fumbling with the words is not supposed to matter.
So forgetting about his tone, what I found missing from Hayward’s words was a sentiment akin to the prayer’s directedness, in which we ask God to “help us to return” and the promise that we “shall indeed return.”
Yes, Hayward and BP took responsibility and promised “we will make things right.” But where was the teshuvah? Are they going to change? Will this ever happen again? The nasty online parodies of this commercial seem to indicate that many just didn’t buy it.
This winter, appearing at a hearing before the U.S. Congress, the grandson of Toyota’s founder apologized for his cars that would not stop.
“I am deeply sorry for any accident that Toyota drivers have experienced,” Akio Toyoda said.
In an almost High Holy Dayish tone, he asked his customers for forgiveness and faith.
“I ask you to find room in your heart to one day believe in me again,” he said.
Was Toyoda preparing us for the Thirteen Attributes of Corolla?
To make amends, he offered that Toyota is dedicated to “continuous slow improvement” — the “change for the better” concept of “Kaizen” upon which Toyota has successfully built itself.
If applied to human relationships, it is this idea of gradual improvement — of continuous teshuvah, if you will — that among all the apologies I find the most useful for Selichot and the season’s Days of Repentance.
Beginning with Selichot, it’s a long, hard haul down an often curvy teshuvah highway, and steering toward “continuous slow improvement” sounds like a plan.
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PrintWhat flavor is your Jewish New Year?
For most, since childhood, Rosh HaShanah begins with apples dipped in honey — a custom meant to ensure a sweet new year.
Over time, the practice has yielded a kind of “ritual comfort food.” But what if we like change? What if you don’t like apples, or honey, or find the combination a drip too saccharine for your tastes?
If the quality of time we choose to celebrate is sweetness, I want to revel in a different kind of sweet.
Does eating the same old thing mean we will have the same old year? Does habit have us singing, “Apples dipped in honey on Rosh HaShanah, blah?”
You don’t need food dehydrators and molecular gastronomy to come up with something better. Just follow your nose, taste buds, Jewish history, and ritual.
This time of year is marked by various kinds of food symbolism. For example, we eat round challah, for the continuity of the Jewish year — with some even decorated with wings or ladders anticipating our spiritual ascent. We also enjoy pomegranates, their seeds representing the commandment to be fruitful and multiply.
Before we say a blessing and eat, why not first consider what we want our food to represent?
For a different new year, one filled with as many new experiences as the seeds of the pomegranate, a new combination is in order. Unless someone is planning to open a Rosh HaShanah food truck, we will need to come up with our own.
[Note: Many of the combinations suggested below include dairy products.]
New combos can be as easy as apples and honey, providing new ways to feed our heads at the head of the year.
To start, let’s not stick with honey. According to Claudia Roden, author of “The Book of Jewish Food,” “Beekeeping is not mentioned in the Bible, and it is believed that every mention of honey in the Pentateuch refers to date honey.”
“Let me take hold its branches,” says a verse of the Song of Songs, which refers to the tamar, or date palm.
Since we want to bring more Torah into our lives at this time of year, then in our search for a new combo, let’s begin with dates. Many already use them as an ingredient of charoset at the Passover table.
Pairing dates with another ancient food, ice cream — it dates back to 400 BCE Rome, around the time of the prophet Malachi — provides a kid- and adult-friendly treat to begin 5771.
So chop up a few dates and sprinkle them onto some vanilla ice cream or frozen yogurt. Think of having a refreshing new year, filled with many satisfying acts of lovingkindness. Serve and say “L’shana tova umetukah,” wishing you a sweet new year.
Another traditional approach to ensuring a sweet new year is eating taiglach, literally “little dough,” small pieces of dough boiled in honey.
What about substituting another form of cooked dough, one with which many Jews are even more familiar: crispy chow mein noodles? We already eat them at Christmas; apparently even Supreme Court Justice Elena Kagan does it. So why not on a Jewish holiday?
For dipping, use the bright red sweet and sour sauce, of course. Let the dipping remind you to dip into your wallet; Rosh HaShanah is an auspicious time to make someone else’s new year sweet as well.
Moving beyond food, at this time of year we should be thinking about the “land of milk and honey,” and that sounds a lot like a drink. What about raising a glass for a sweet and healthy year?
With their myriad ruby red seeds, antioxidant-rich pomegranates have a holiday significance, reminding us of both mitzvot and fertility; all the good deeds and perhaps new babies we intend to surround ourselves with in the coming year.
We can toast the year with a glass of pomegranate juice, sweetened further by serving it with a slice of orange on the rim of the glass. Pomegranates and oranges are agricultural products of modern-day Israel.
Chocolate has all the right stuff to bring us Jewish New Year joy. For a Jewish connection, Rabbi Debra Prinz on her blog “Jews on the Chocolate Trail” has amply demonstrated the involvement of Jewish traders and producers in the chocolate trade.
Your favorite fruit or berries dipped in melted chocolate can easily introduce a sweet new year.
But if I have my choice of chocolate-infused ways to bring in Rosh HaShanah, it’s a chocolate egg cream every time. A treat with a Jewish history, many historians say the drink dates back to early 1900s Brooklyn. Louis Auster, a Jewish Brooklyn candy-store owner, is said to have created the fizzy chocolate drink.
To make a chocolate egg cream, traditionalists recommend using only Fox’s U-Bet, still made in Brooklyn. The ritual calls for a little milk and some chocolate syrup; add cold soda water and stir vigorously.
The bubbles represent the sparkle we all need to begin a new year; their sweet effervescence can get us written onto that big menu of life. Chocolate mixed in seltzer on Rosh HaShanah, yes!
On Rosh HaShanah, sound the shofar. But in the quiet that follows, listen for the fizz.
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Steven Levine is matter-of-fact about his family’s upcoming plans for Rosh HaShanah.
At the dinner table with his wife, Leslie, everyone will share resolutions, round-robin style. He will take the day off from his job at the U.S. Olympic Committee and his three children won’t go to school in order to attend synagogue.
But only on the first day — it is no two-day holiday for this family.
“It’s all cost-benefit analysis,” says Levine, 45, a risk-management director from suburban Denver.
The local public school is still open on the Jewish new year, and vacation time is tight at work.
“With other obligations and commitments,” he says, “we do the best we can.”
“I suppose there’s a bit of a feeling of guilt for not doing more, but I’ve rationalized it that the second day is not significant.”
During her time as a congregational Reform rabbi, C. Michelle Greenberg had a different experience: She was not expected to lead synagogue services — if the synagogue even had services — on the second day of Rosh HaShanah. Greenberg, 37, an educator now living in the San Francisco Bay area, says the second day often would become a chance for her “to celebrate as a participant” at another synagogue.
With its seemingly stepchild status outside the more traditional segments of the Jewish community, what is the significance of the second day of Rosh HaShanah, anyway?
When the ancient Israelites started celebrating the “head of the year” 2,000 years ago, it was, in fact, a one-day holiday. But with no convenient wall calendar to indicate the actual day to celebrate, they relied on trustworthy witnesses to report to the Sages at the Sanhedrin, or Supreme Court, a new-moon sighting. Shortly thereafter a series of smoke signals would alert the scattered communities that it was time to start the holiday.
The ineffectiveness of this communication system was not lost on the Sages. They declared Rosh HaShanah a two-day holiday, or a “Yoma Arichta,” one long day of 48 hours, to ensure that Jews everywhere were celebrating at approximately the same time.
Yet as Mark Leuchter, director of Jewish studies at Temple University in Philadelphia, points out, despite “its root traditions, Rosh HaShanah has changed dramatically in 2,000 years,” and “we don’t do it the way our ancient forefathers did it.”
Nor is there any need for smoke signals today.
“The only part of the original recipe that we’ve retained” is the practice of observing the holiday for 48 hours, Leuchter says. “Now we do it not because we have to but because we used to. It ties us back to a hallowed antiquity.”
Menachem Schmidt, a Chabad-Lubavitch rabbi in Philadelphia, says beyond the historic reasons for observing two days, “there is also a spiritual reason for needing 48 hours for the holiday.”
Rosh HaShanah is a time when every individual affirms his own relationship with God, and “the second day is an equal part of that process,” Schmidt says. There is a new light in the world, he says, “and it takes two days to accomplish that.”
With the drop-off rate in synagogue attendance from the first to the second day at approximately 75 percent, Rabbi Isaac Jeret of Cong. Ner Tamid in Los Angeles says that, “as a rabbi, [I think that] what to do on the second day of Rosh HaShanah is a fascinating question, and I look at it as very important to have different offerings” the first day and the second day.
On the first day, when he expects some 2,000 attendees — many not even belonging to the Conservative synagogue — the service has musical accompaniment and Jeret gives a longer sermon. On the second day, “it is shul-goers day,” he says, and the service reflects that.
“There’s no choir and no piano,” he says. “We take out the Torah and study text as a community. It’s a much more intimate service.”
Rabbi Charles Arian of the Conservative Beth Jacob Synagogue in Norwich, Conn., says he makes no secret of the fact that he would get rid of the second day on the Jewish festival holidays of Sukkot, Shemini Atzeret, Passover, and Shavuot, which are tacked on to remind diaspora Jews that they are not observing the holidays in the land of Israel.
But of Rosh HaShanah, he says, “It really is different.”
One reason, Arian explains, is that it is the only Jewish holiday that is also a rosh chodesh, or a new month. But, he adds, a “complete repeat of what you did [the day] before” is not necessary. He says wearing new clothes or eating a new seasonal fruit (like a pomegranate or an apple) also makes the second day of Rosh HaShanah different and meaningful.
For Ephraim “Fry” Wernick, 33, heading to Dallas to spend Rosh HaShanah with his family may not be different from years past, but it will be meaningful.
He says the first day of the holiday may seem more important, but the Washington-based lawyer will attend services at a nearby traditional synagogue on both days.
“Rosh Hashanah is a cleansing of the soul,” Wernick says. “I try to use the time for spiritual growth, reflecting on the year, righting the wrongs.”
And two days, he adds wryly, is just a start, adding that “I need as much time as God will give me.”
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PrintNEW YORK – A leading American Jewish umbrella group has started a national campaign in support of captured Israeli soldier Gilad Shalit.
The Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations on Monday launched the website http://www.giladgreetings.org to allow people around the world to send birthday and High Holidays greetings for Shalit.
The soldier, 24, captured in a cross-border raid in June 2006 and reportedly being held by Hamas in Gaza, on Saturday marked his fifth birthday in captivity.
Greetings can be submitted through the website or by mail to the Presidents Conference, which will deliver the greetings to the International Committee of the Red Cross. The Red Cross has been denied the right to visit Shalit.
The site was designed to support and encourage efforts by the Red Cross to press Hamas to allow its representatives to visit Shalit, in compliance with international law. Shalit has been held in isolation since he was captured.
Printed greetings can be sent to Shalit in care of the Conference of Presidents, 633 Third Ave., 21st Floor, New York, NY 10017. Cards also may be dropped off in specially designated mailboxes at participating JCCs throughout the United States, or at various Magen David Adom locations in Israel.
The campaign also includes advertisements to be shown four times per hour daily through Sept. 5 on the high-definition digital billboard on the W Hotel at 47th Street in Times Square.
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PrintIn time for High Holy Day gift-giving, pastry chef and teacher Paula Shoyer has published her first cookbook, “The Kosher Baker” (Brandeis University Press/University Press of New England), seeking to “breathe fresh life into pareve desserts and breads.” Shoyer is the editor of Susan Fishbein’s cookbooks “Kosher by Design Entertains” and “Kosher By Design Kids in the Kitchen.”
Many recipes contain amusing anecdotes, beginning with one from Shoyer herself, found in the preface. “In the beginning,” she writes, “my mother baked once a year with cake mixes during Passover.” The story continues, with the author explaining how the book came to be. Nearly one-fourth of the recipes can be mixed in one bowl and are ready for the oven in 15 minutes.
The cookbook is beautifully illustrated — with color and black and white photos by Michael Bennett Kress — making it easy to visualize what the dessert will look like.
For those with a diabetic in the family, Shoyer has included no-sugar-added desserts in the “Passover & Other Special Diets” section (see recipe below for Mandelbread — No-Sugar-Added). There are also gluten-free, nut-free, and vegan choices.
Sections are clear and easy to follow, with advice on storing, freezing, thawing, must-have tools and ingredients, and tips and techniques. The book is for the novice or cook-on-the-go, as well as for more serious bakers. Sections range from recipes with 15-minute preparation time (“Quick & Elegant Desserts”); to “Two-Step Desserts,” with 15-30 minutes prep time; to “Multiple-Step Desserts & Breads,” which take more than 30 minutes to prepare.
There is something for everyone, and all 160 plus recipes, “from traditional to trendy,” are dairy-free. Why not get a copy at local Judaica or retail bookstores or from Amazon.com and give it to a friend? You might then ask the recipient to make you a few of its mouth-watering desserts.
No-Sugar-Added Mandelbread
The Kosher Baker
Makes about 30 cookies
This is a helpful recipe to have — particularly if a diabetic is joining you for dinner. The cookies are delicious, though sugar-free. They can also survive a voyage.
3 cups all-purpose flour
2 tsp. baking powder
Dash of salt
¾ cup granulated sugar substitute, such as Splenda
1 tsp. sugar-free vanilla syrup
3 large eggs
½ cup canola or vegetable oil
¼ cup orange juice
1/3 cup sliced almonds
1/3 cup whole, unsalted, cashews, or shelled pistachio nuts (for pistachios, about ¼ pound of nuts in their shells)
1/3 cup dried cranberries (not the sweetened kind)
1/3 cup raisins
1. Preheat the oven to 350°F. Line a cookie sheet with parchment.
2. In a bowl, combine the flour, baking powder, salt, sugar substitute, vanilla syrup, eggs, oil, and orange juice. Set aside.
3. Place the sliced almonds and cashews or whole pistachio nuts in the bowl of a food processor fitted with a metal blade. Process for about 45 seconds, or until the nuts are in small pieces but not completely ground. You can also place the nuts in a bag and band with a rolling pin until they are in small pieces. Add to the dough. Place the cranberries and raisins in the food processor and chop into small pieces, about 30 seconds. You can also chop by hand. Add to the dough and mix in.
4. Divide the dough in half and use your hands to shape into 2 loaves, 3 x 8 inches each. Place on prepared cookie sheet about 4 inches apart.
5. Bake for 35 minutes. Slide the parchment off the cookie sheet. Use a sharp knife to slice each loaf into ¾ to 1-inch slices.
6. Place a new piece of parchment on the cookie sheet and place the slices cut-side down on the parchment. Bake for 5 minutes. Let cool on a rack.
Storage: Place in an airtight container or freezer bags and store at room temperature for up to five days or freeze up to three months.
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PrintIn time for High Holy Day meal preparation, Manischewitz offers some new products including the new all-natural Vegetable Broth that has no MSG and is fat-free, joining chicken, beef, and low-sodium chicken broths in 14- and 32-ounce sizes; all-natural ready-to-serve soups in five flavors, Matzo Ball and Chicken Soup, Matzo Ball and Chicken Soup Reduced Sodium, Chicken Noodle Soup, Chicken Noodle Soup Reduced Sodium, and Chicken Soup and Rice; and all-natural, low sodium Roasted and Peeled Chestnuts from the Season brand, an all-natural, low sodium product. Tam Tams with no trans fats come in boxes with 20 percent more product for the same price. For a full list of products visit www.Manischewitz.com.
Pomegranate Spinach Salad with Tropical Dressing
Manischewitz
Prep time: 10 minutes
Ingredients
2 pounds baby spinach leafs, washed well
1 cup canned corn
1 box Manischewitz® Couscous, cooked
2 cups (1 bag) shredded carrots
1 cup pomegranate seeds
1 star fruit, sliced thin
2 apples, diced
1 cup alfalfa sprouts, chopped
2 cups leftover chicken or lamb, shredded (optional)
For dressing:
1 cup mayonnaise
1/2 cup apricot preserves
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon distilled white vinegar
Preparation
In a large bowl toss all your salad ingredients together. Set aside.
In a smaller bowl add all the ingredients for the dressing. Using a fork or a hand blender, blend all ingredients well. Pour over salad and enjoy.
Grilled Mahi Mahi With Vinegar Spiked Vegetables
Manischewitz
Cooking time: 45 min
Ingredients
3/4 cup baby carrots
3/4 cup leeks, chopped (rinse well)
3/4 cup rutabaga, chopped
3/4 cup green bell pepper, sliced
28 oz (2 cans) Manischewitz® Vegetable Broth
1/2 tsp. ginger, minced
1/2 tsp. garlic, minced
1/4 cup rice wine vinegar
1/2 tsp. granulated sugar
6 (6 oz.) Mahi Mahi filets
Manischewitz® Kosher salt, to taste
Cracked black pepper, to taste
6 onions
3 cups cooked rice
2 Tbsp. parsley
Preparation:
Marinate vegetables in 2 ounces vegetable broth, ginger, garlic, vinegar and sugar for 30 minutes.
Season Mahi Mahi with salt and pepper; grill on both sides until flaky.
For each onion, cut 1-inch slice off the top and a thin slice off the bottom so it will sit flat, discard the slices. Peel the onions and with a melon baller scoop out the inside of each onion, leaving the outer two layers. Char onion cups on grill and fill with cooked rice.
Heat remaining vegetable broth; add marinated vegetables and cook for 15 minutes or until vegetables are tender; add Mahi Mahi; garnish with parsley.
Serve with rice-filled onion cups.
| More Rosh HaShanah recipes |
For more Rosh Hashanah recipes, including main dishes, appetizers, and sides, visit http://www.manischewitz.com and don’t forget the Cooking With Beth blog at www.jstandard.com for other holiday recipes. |
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PrintJERUSALEM – Four Jewish Israelis were killed when gunmen opened fire on the car they were riding in at the entrance to Kiryat Arba, near Hebron.
Tuesday night’s attack in the west bank comes on the eve of the opening of peace talks in Washington between Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas. No group has claimed responsibility for the attack.
More than one gunman approached the car and shot the victims — two men ages 25 and 40, and two women of about the same ages — at point blank range, according to preliminary reports, Haaretz reported. One of the women was pregnant. The car was sprayed with dozens of bullets, according to reports.
U.S. State Department spokesman P.J. Crowley was briefing reporters on the upcoming peace talks when news of the attack came in.
“We are cognizant that there could be external events that can have an impact on the environment” at the peace talks, he said. “There may well be actors in the region who are deliberately making these kind of attacks to sabotage the process.”
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PrintNEW YORK – A Jewish woman from Fair Lawn died in a plane crash in Nepal on her 30th birthday.
Irina Shekhets reportedly traveled to Nepal on a spiritual journey and was heading to a hiking trip to a Mount Everest base camp when the 15-seat, twin-engine plane crashed Aug. 23 about 50 miles south of Kathmandu. Fourteen people were killed, including four Americans.
Shekhets was a graduate of Brooklyn College Law School and recently had taken the bar exam. She was on leave from her job as an analyst for JP Morgan Chase.
Volunteers from the ZAKA International Rescue Unit left Israel Monday night to assist in the recovery and identification of Shekhets’ badly charred remains.
The decision to send a team was made in cooperation with Chabad House in Katmandu, which is coordinating the recovery efforts with local authorities, and the Israeli Foreign Office’s situation room, which assisted the team in obtaining the necessary visas.
Israeli backpackers will join the ZAKA volunteers in their search of the crash site.
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We got the Rosh HaShanah card at right from an unlikely place: the Jüdisches Museum in Berlin. Who would have thought, in 1939, that there would be such a place — and that it would be sending out new year’s cards for 5771?
We loved it — the infant’s face, crumpled in tears, made us laugh, and the words beneath it, which mean “Learn to laugh without crying,” sent a marvelous wish for the year that we extend to all.
There is so much to cry about. In one place or other around the world there is war, misery, or famine — separately and sometimes, so terribly, together.
We write these words on Wednesday, the day after four Israelis were gunned down by murderers who clearly don’t want the peace talks to succeed. (See below.) Yet we can take some comfort in the fact that they are being held at all.
And our cover story began in a time of tears, but came to a conclusion in redemptive joy.
Dear readers, we send you the traditional Rosh HaShanah wishes for a good and sweet year. May you be inscribed in the book of life — and may you learn to laugh (and have reason to laugh) without crying.
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PrintCan the Mideast peace talks, scheduled to begin on Thursday, succeed? And — if such a thing is possible — how will we measure success?
• Will there be a cessation of hostilities? Not likely, since recent aggression has emanated not from Fatah but from Hamas, which is not involved in the Washington meetings. Nor do we have any reason to assume that Hamas will change its stripes. A Hamas leader, dismissing the peace efforts, told the Huffington Post that change will only “be accomplished by force.”
• Will there be immediate agreements over settlements? Unlikely, since Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, like Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas, has many constituents to please, with some in a position to topple his government.
Whatever happens at the initial three-hour meeting between Netanyahu and Abbas, Bibi has it right in suggesting that only regular, ongoing meetings between the two leaders will bring about any kind of positive change (see page 25).
It is unfortunate, though perhaps inevitable, that the two sides have not yet committed to the agenda for the talks. Still, the very fact that they will take place at all will have to serve as victory enough for now.
Many people do not wish the players well: Hamas has expressed its displeasure by orchestrating the cold-blooded killing of four Israeli civilians near Hebron. That might well be construed as a response to George Mitchell’s oft-repeated statement that the United States would welcome the group’s full participation in talks “once they comply with the basic requirements of democracy and nonviolence that are a prerequisite.”
Less violent but perhaps equally influential, some members of Netanyahu’s own cabinet have vowed to walk out of the government if he compromises in any way on the settlement issue — while Abbas has said he will walk out if Netanyahu does not sustain the 10-month partial moratorium on settlement expansion, which lapses Sept. 26.
Ironically, just as Netanyahu has recognized that real progress — measured not just in greater national security but in economic and diplomatic improvements as well — will take a long time to accomplish, those who do not seek peace have vowed to be equally patient in waging aggression.
As we enter a new year, let us pray that peace — despite its many obstacles — will prevail.
L.G.
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PrintGlenn Beck, the Fox commentator, held a big rally on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial on Saturday and if you are not a Christian, you should be very, very afraid.
Of course, that is not the conventional wisdom in some Jewish circles. If a person supports tuition vouchers for private schools on the one hand and opposes any territorial concessions by Israel to the Palestinians on the other, that person is cheered, not feared. It is a dangerously myopic view.
John Hagee, the Texas pastor who in 2006 founded Christians United for Israel, is the perfect example. Hagee wins praise time and again from Jewish leaders here and in Israel for demanding that the United States “stop putting pressure on the nation of Israel for a no-growth policy in Judea and Samaria.”
Keepin the FaithWhat Jewish leaders prefer to ignore is why Hagee holds such views. To him, Jewish control of the “Holy Land” is an essential prerequisite for that moment in the not-too-distant future when we Christ-killers will be given one last chance to recognize our transgression and abandon our Judaism. Here, for example, is what this “friend of the Jews” said on National Public Radio’s “Fresh Air with Terry Gross” just a few days before Rosh HaShanah in 2006:
“Now, when it comes to the Jewish people, [the prophet] Zechariah very clearly says that they are not going to believe that Jesus Christ is the Messiah until they see him. Zechariah says in the 14th chapter ‘and when they,’ the Jewish people, ‘see him whom they have pierced’ — and the word pierced there actually refers to his rib and side — ‘when they see him whom they have pierced, they will weep as one weeps for his only son for a period of one week.’ They’re simply not going to believe he is the Messiah until they actually see him, and that’s at the Second Coming. Then, at that point in time, there is the judgment of the nations in which all nations are judged for the way in which they have treated the nation of Israel and the Jewish people, and the Jewish people are front and center in the kingdom of God that will be an eternal kingdom.”
That is, we are “front and center in the kingdom of God” if we abandon our faith and accept Christianity. Hagee is entitled to his vision of the future, but we should be alert enough to understand the words he uses to describe it. The Jews killed Christ. In the end of days, when the Jews see his awful wounds, they will cry out in mourning for the evil they did to him and to the world. This is what Hagee is saying.
As for what “Zechariah says in the 14th chapter,” Hagee surely meant Zechariah 12:10, which has nothing to do with Jesus or with the Jews piercing anyone; on the contrary, it is we who are martyred for protecting Jerusalem. (Hagee is not responsible for this distortion of Zechariah; it is a long-cherished Christian teaching.)
Hagee also has a twisted notion of the role the Nazis played in Jewish history, in keeping with his interpretation of another one of the Bible’s verses, Jeremiah 16:15-16.
Referring to the Jews, God says, “I will bring them back to their land, which I gave to their fathers. Behold, I am sending for many fishermen — declares the Lord — and they shall haul them out; and after that I will send for many hunters, and they shall hunt them out of every mountain and out of every hill, and out of the clefts of the rocks.”
“First, God sent the fishermen to Israel,” Hagee writes in his book “Jerusalem Countdown: A Warning to the World.” The fishermen “were the Zionists, men like Theodor Herzl who called ... the sons and daughters of Abraham home.”
When we failed to hear the Zionist message, “God then sent the hunters,” wrote Hagee, referring to the Nazi horde. The “force and fear of Hitler’s Nazis drove the Jewish people back to the only home God ever intended for the Jews to have — Israel.... I am stricken with awe and wonder at His boundless love for Israel and the Jewish people and His divine determination that the promise He gave Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob become reality.”
I am stricken with awe and wonder at the stupidity of that statement, as well as its insensitivity and its seeming ignorance of where the Nazis actually sent the Jewish people. I am more stricken, however, by the fact that no one calls Hagee to task for saying that Israel is “the only home God ever intended for the Jews to have,” by which he also means that Jews do not belong in this country or any other outside Israel. If this is the kind of person we laud, God help us.
Hagee was a prominent member of Saturday’s Glenn Beck-led cast, which did include a rabbi, and which did have Beck saying such inclusive-sounding things as “go to your churches, synagogues, and mosques.”
Not Beck and not Hagee, however, could disguise the real intent of the day. “Something beyond imagination is happening,” Beck told the cheering throng. “America today begins to turn back to God.”
Beck meant the Christian view of God. “Pray on your knees,” he exhorted the crowd, something Jews, at least, do not do, as he well knows.
Ironically, which Christian view of God is the subject of debate in Christian circles, since Beck himself is a convert to Mormonism, which most Christians consider a heretical cult.
What matters, though, is not which Christian view, but that it is a Christian view. Beck and Hagee and their ilk believe that America was founded on Christian values; in truth, it was founded more on values found in the Torah than anywhere else. They believe that America is a Christian nation; in truth, the founding fathers went to great lengths to make it the welcoming home of people of all faiths and even of those who profess no faith at all.
Beck brought a Christian army to Washington on Saturday, and its goal is to cleanse America of any thoughts and ideals he and Hagee and their kind consider not authentically Christian.
When Mahmoud Abbas says one thing in English and another in Arabic, we hold up the Arabic statements as his true intent. When the so-called Christian Zionists say one thing to our faces and another behind our backs, we choose to ignore those statements or to dismiss them.
We do this at our peril.
Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of the Conservative synagogue Temple Israel Community Center in Cliffside Park and an instructor in the UJA-Federation-sponsored Florence Melton Adult Mini-School of the Hebrew University. He is the editor of Judaism: A Journal of Jewish Life and Thought.
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PrintThe High Holidays bring with them a creative tension: respect for tradition alongside a call for change, a time when we are aware of both our blessings and our responsibilities. We hear this piercing call at the center of our High Holiday liturgy: “Let us proclaim the sacred power of this day,” we pray during Un’taneh Tokef. “It is awesome and full of dread.”
It’s not enough simply to enjoy our blessings; we must recognize the responsibility they bring. It’s not enough to simply hope for the best; we must connect with that sacred power. We must work to achieve what we pray for — for our communities, our country, our Jewish homeland, and ourselves.
In these holy days, the Jewish state stands at a turning point, as Israelis and Palestinians stand poised to engage in direct negotiations. Their aim is to achieve the one solution upon which all sides have long agreed: two states, living in peace and security.
Notably, fully three-quarters of American Jews back a two-state solution. Today, as we open our prayer books and gather as family at our holiday meals, the time has come for that majority to move beyond hoping for the best. The time has come to work for a real constituency for peace.
Our role is unique. American commitment is crucial to the success of the talks. Israelis and Palestinians will be asked to make painful compromises and to deal with the results of decades of hostilities. The Obama administration has acknowledged that its peace initiative won’t advance if there’s no momentum in support from American citizens.
It’s time to make our voices heard. It’s time to tell the Obama administration and Congress that we know a two-state agreement is in the best interests of Israel, the Palestinians, and American security needs. We must assure our elected officials that they’ll have a reliable base of support when they take bold steps to further negotiations — that, in fact, there is no more pro-Israel position than working to achieve a two-state peace settlement.
It’s time, in no small part, because time is not on Israel’s side.
At some point, circumstances may turn against Israel so negatively that we may look back on this moment as a tragically missed opportunity. Demographic trends and increasing extremism on both sides pose a real threat to the Jewish democracy. The sheer relentlessness of loss and fear lead many to abandon hope. Ultimately, those who lose hope will also lose their willingness to compromise.
We have a narrow window of opportunity. If we’re still talking about the first phase of direct negotiations next Rosh HaShanah, it will mean we’ve failed to grapple with the single most pressing issue on the Jewish people’s agenda.
My commitment to Israel’s security and prosperity is unswerving. My admiration for her achievements is unbounded. At the same time, I owe it to Israel to express myself as honestly as possible. Torah teaches us that real friends — or, in fact, loving family —offer the truth, with the caution, care, and respect that family deserves.
Rather than retreat from discussing the difficult issues of peace, we must call upon our best traditions as a people always ready to debate. We are, at our core, God-wrestlers who seek truth together even when we don’t agree. Any final agreements will, of course, be in the hands of Israelis and Palestinians, but we American Jews must also bring our best minds to this conflict, engaging with Israelis and Palestinians as they find their way to a settlement — one that will bring security to Israel, hope for a better future to Palestinians, and peace to the region.
It’s not enough merely to seek atonement. We’re expected to do the difficult work of examining our behavior and effecting real change. This will require tough choices and the full engagement of Israel’s supporters, but surely a resolution of this horrendous conflict is worth that effort. Israel’s agreements with Egypt and Jordan stand as proof that after difficult negotiations, peace can withstand the tests of time and circumstance.
In the years to come, let it not be said that we stood on the sidelines in the face of great opportunity. Instead, let it be said that we recognized the “sacred power of this time” and seized this moment to support those who aggressively pursue the cause of peace.
JTA
Rabbi Charles A. Kroloff, a member of the J Street Rabbinic Cabinet, is past president of the Central Conference of American Rabbis and rabbi emeritus of Temple Emanu-El of Westfield.
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PrintIn the past few weeks, some, including William McGurn, a former chief speechwriter for president George W. Bush, have drawn a comparison between the convent built on the perimeter of Auschwitz and the mosque scheduled to be built in the environs of Ground Zero in New York, where pieces of the planes fell. The fundamental argument has been that just as a convent does not belong on the grounds of the largest Jewish cemetery in the world, a mosque does not belong in the place where Americans representing a wide range of religions and ethnic backgrounds were killed. As leader of a group of seven who climbed the fence at Auschwitz in July of 1989 to protest against the convent, I would like to expand upon this comparison.
The convent did not belong at Auschwitz-Birkenau because well over 90 percent of those who were murdered on that soil were Jewish. To erect a convent where nuns would be cloistered and — as they themselves proclaimed — would pray for the souls of the departed, would be, in the minds of so many of the victims themselves, as well as among surviving family members and friends, an act of sacrilege. It would have been understood as nothing less than a Christian show of triumphalism, a sort of tangible declaration at this fundamentally Jewish burial site, that Christianity prevails.
I take second place to no one when it comes to showing respect for religious places of worship of all faiths. But a convent at the largest Jewish cemetery in the world is inappropriate. Although it took many years for Pope John Paul II to come to this realization, it was he himself who finally ordered the nuns to move.
In a similar vein, 9/11 was an attack against America. It was an assault on the country’s fundamental principles of pluralism, of the need to embrace all of humankind — people of all faiths, Jewish, Christian, and Muslim, believers and non-believers, agnostics and atheists. Here, right before our eyes, was the contrast between the killers, who could only see one way of living, and the American democratic way of openness and universalism that embraces people of all backgrounds and all faiths.
Hence, it would be inappropriate for there to be built at that particular place — the site of an attack against an all-embracing way of life — any edifice that represents a particular religious belief. In the place where America was attacked, the response should be one that embodies the “spirit of America.” It should include a center where believers of all faiths and, of course, non-believers too, can meditate and reflect, in an area open to all.
Opposition to the new mosque near Ground Zero does not preclude the continued use of buildings — even a mosque — that existed before 9/11. Those pre-existing buildings are in stark contrast to a colossal community center/mosque built as a clear response to the attack.
As the debate has become more acrimonious, it is important for both sides not to impugn the motives of the other. Those who favor the mosque should not attribute to all who oppose it a demonization of Islam. And those who oppose the mosque should not attribute to those who defend it a disloyalty to America or hopeless naiveté. The debate has focused on the voices of extremism on each side. The voices of the center, the majority, which are much more nuanced, must be heard.
Spirituality is intertwined with stepping back, making room for the other. With so many families and friends of victims upset by the creation of this new mosque, why not step back and find another site a bit farther away? This is what Pope John Paul II did when he ordered the nuns to leave the convent at Auschwitz and relocate farther away. Similarly, in the case of the mosque, the stepping back would not be a defeat; it would be a heroic gesture to bring calm to the community.
As a clerical first responder on 9/11, I had the task of ministering to and comforting the true heroes — police officers, firefighters, and others. I breathed the air, listened to the stories, and participated with religious leaders of other faiths in the prayer services near the makeshift morgues. At the site of the destroyed Twin Towers, during those terrible days, I felt a profound sense of universalism. The soil at Ground Zero is hallowed ground. If one walks those sidewalks carefully, one can’t help but feel the cries of all the deceased.
To those who attacked America and for those who were brutally murdered, it is critical that the response be an American one. It must be a tribute that embraces all faiths, all believers and non-believers, created in a place that represents the legacy, the vibrancy, and the continuity of America itself — a place that reflects that all of us are created equal.
Rabbi Avraham (Avi) Weiss is senior rabbi of the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale, co-founder of the International Rabbinic Fellowship, and national president of Amcha-The Coalition for Jewish Concerns. The opinions presented here are his alone.
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PrintOn Sept. 9, the Jewish community will joyously welcome in the year 5771.
Although Rosh HaShanah is a time of celebration, the holiday also marks the beginning of the serious introspection and reflection undertaken throughout the Days of Awe.
Individuals will look at their actions over the past year to reflect on their achievements and shortcomings. Yet limiting the introspective nature of the High Holidays to individuals alone would be a serious error. The new year also presents an opportunity for group reflection and evaluation.
At this time, when we all engage with our own personal struggles toward improvement, the American Jewish community can also make group efforts toward a better future
So, where are our communal shortcomings? The answer points to considering ourselves not only as Jewish individuals but also as part of a larger Jewish community.
On Rosh HaShanah and other holidays, many Jews across America unite in collective celebration. This unity positively affects both the relationship among Jews and the relationship between Jews and their non-Jewish neighbors.
As a whole, the American Jewish community encompasses a broad range of geographic locations and religious interpretations. At times, these differences facilitate meaningful dialogue and discussion, but all too often they serve as barriers to mutual respect and collaboration.
Events that unite the national Jewish population, however, have the potential to provide temporary alleviation from internal conflict and contention.
On Rosh HaShanah, for example, American Jews celebrate in a variety of forms, but we really engage in a joint celebration. By recognizing that our individual actions are part of a larger celebration, we can recognize the commonalities of our behavior instead of the differences. Because the Jewish community is particularly visible during nationally recognized events, these occasions helps us view ourselves as members of a broad and diverse Jewish family. Thus, Jewish events ease tension and facilitate ahavat Yisrael — loving our fellow Jews.
These days of unity also lead to an increased Jewish profile throughout America. On Rosh HaShanah, major news stations will mention the holiday, newspapers will feature articles about the day’s significance, and non-Jewish friends will be likely to wish you a happy new year. Even the White House typically sends out Rosh HaShanah greetings.
This heightened national Jewish profile is beneficial because it is an opportunity for the American Jewish community to be recognized and respected. It’s also an opportunity to appear as a united group.
Given that nationally recognized Jewish events strengthen relationships and foster community, we can improve the American Jewish future by finding additional opportunities for group recognition of an event. The challenge to doing so, however, is to find common ground upon which we, as American Jews, can put aside our differences and disagreements to demonstrate who we are and what we can accomplish.
I believe this common ground takes form in the universal Jewish values of chesed (kindness), tzedakah (charity), and tikkun olam (social justice). The American Jewish community — noted for a commitment to community service, volunteerism, and philanthropic giving — already boasts an enormous number of Mitzvah Days that honor these values.
But the existing events are isolated in nature and thus do not foster a broad sense of cooperative strength and communal power. These benefits could be obtained easily through coordinating an annual event in which the American Jewish community demonstrates its continued commitment to mitzvot and gemilut chasadim — good deeds and loving kindness. Call it a national Mitzvah Day, if you will.
Let Britain’s nationwide Mitzvah Day serve as an example. The annual event, called UK Mitzvah Day, is “a day where Jews lead the way, one day a year enjoying giving back, making a difference, all together.”
The concept behind UK Mitzvah Day illustrates that the event transforms individual doers of good deeds into national leaders, representative of the Jewish community’s dedication and commitment to service and world improvement. In America, some efforts to establish a Mitzvah Day with national scope already have been initiated. J-Serve: Jewish Teens Serving the World is an annual national service event intended to engage Jewish youth in service. Big Sunday, an annual service event that attracts volunteers from throughout Southern California, grew out of Temple Israel of Hollywood’s Mitzvah Day.
Yet, for a national Mitzvah Day to achieve its highest potential, there must be an event that can incorporate everyone, regardless of age, location, or ideology.
The logistics of when to schedule the event, how to keep track of participants and how to incorporate Jewish values into service projects all present challenges, but these challenges are not insurmountable.
With 15 years of experience in the field of Jewish education, I had precisely these obstacles in mind in 2002, when I founded Areyvut, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping youth enrich their lives with Jewish values. Since then, the Areyvut staff has worked with passion and determination to develop programs that can successfully overcome these challenges.
As we celebrate and reflect at the start of this new year, I suggest we save a spot among our goals and resolutions for national Mitzvah Day development and participation. Doing so will provide the opportunity to overcome geographic and ideological differences and to celebrate the power derived from honoring the values of chesed, tzedakah, and tikkun olam. Certainly, that would be the start of a sweet new year.
JTA
Daniel Rothner is the founder and director of Areyvut, which is based in Bergenfield. Mollie Feldman, a senior at Carleton College who served as an Areyvut intern and developed materials for Make a Difference Day 2011, also contributed to this piece.
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PrintRabbi Shmuley Boteach wrote a lament Aug. 13 about one-child families. I share his concerns.
I am an only child and the parent of two children. I am amazed and disheartened by recent media focus on one-child families, which supports the “instant gratification” society. Have one child, and a yuppie couple can still consume and be happy. Of course, life is not so simple.
Throughout my life, I have encountered many other “only children.” All of us share a bond, filled with some regret at missing the experience of having siblings. All of us know the epithet “all the gain and all the pain.” All of us face the difficulty of caring for aging parents by ourselves.
On one point, Rabbi Boteach and I diverge. Talking about the Islamification of Europe in a piece about only children makes little sense. One might also mention the fact that China, with its one-child policy, is also taking over the world. Muslim and Latino families do not have many children because they love their kids more. They do so for cultural reasons. And they fit long-known models of human behavior. Poor and middle-class families have more children. Affluent societies have smaller families. Social scientists can explain why.
Parenting is difficult. But in the end, children are our greatest joys and legacy. L’dor v’dor.
Wayne
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PrintWhen the Palestinian Authority makes a demand prior to negotiations, it assumes that its demands must be met without any negotiations
This applies to those demands that are insisted on as confidence-building measures, Actually honoring them means they have already been agreed to — a back-door method of achieving something without discussion. Then the Palestinians are free to say, “What have you done for me lately?”
As to confidence-building, the evacuation from Gaza is a recent major measure intended for that purpose. The evacuation was painful, but instead of confidence it produced missile attacks from Gaza itself.
More difficult to understand is the repetitive attempts by U.S. administrations to pressure Israel to accommodate these demands. Usually the result is to elicit new demands.
Perhaps there should be a better balance by pressuring the Palestinians to give up something as well. They could start with giving up their hatred — endlessly expressed in extreme rhetoric. Its content is destructive of confidence and implies a future to be feared.
Teaneck
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PrintHarry Reidler’s Aug. 27 letter certainly poses an important question: “Ask where is ‘reformist Islam.’”
I just want to point out that The Jewish Standard did give us a partial answer to this question. Just the week before, the Aug. 20 edition contained an article by Josh Lipowsky entitled “New York Islamic center could ‘encourage more attacks’; former Islamic terrorist urges moderation.” In this article, he gave us the views of Dr. Tawfik Hamid, an inspiring Islamic reformer.
It would be great if other newspapers and media would follow this lead and give voice to moderate Muslims. I have heard of only one other: Dr. Zudhi Jasser, founder of the American Islamic Forum for Democracy. These are the people we want to listen to and support.
Tenafly
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PrintI found the opinions of those quoted in “‘The wrong place’: Locals speak out against Cordoba House” (Aug. 20) to be embarrassing and disgraceful. First, let’s set the record straight. It’s not a mosque, it’s a community center, like a JCC or a YMCA. Second, there was another “ground zero” at the Pentagon. There’s a mosque in the Pentagon and it’s been there for decades, but no one seems to mind that mosque. This controversy is a cooked-up political issue. That three prominent members of our local Jewish community have been weak enough to step into this un-American political quagmire is deeply disappointing.
When the constitutionally guaranteed right to practice religion can be hijacked by political extremists, we are in real trouble. Let me look to some local examples of this. Rabbi Benjamin Shull should be able to identify with the cooked-up controversy that tried to stop Temple Emanuel from moving from Westwood to what was then St. Alphonsus College and is now Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley. The move was delayed by anti-Semitic bigots and their sympathizers. The Bergen County Y, a JCC in Washington Township, was delayed for years by the political machinations of bigots. In both these cases, the opponents of the U.S. Constitution used lots of bogus reasons for their opposition, like the need for tax ratables, potential traffic problems, etc., much like the bogus reasons put forth by the three interviewees in the article.
Where a JCC, Islamic community center, YMCA. or other religiously affiliated building can be located should not be subject to popularity polling, and, as Jews, we should certainly have enough historical perspective to recognize that it’s a slippery slope for us once any religious center can be squashed.
Woodcliff Lake
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PrintIt seems to many of us that the issue of the constitutionality of the mosque near Ground Zero is being demagogued — especially by leftists. The real issue is one of propriety, not of property rights, about being a good neighbor and not being a “Shachen Ra.”
See more at http://nishmablog.blogspot.com/2010/08/sefer-ha-hinuch-on-gzm.html
“The presence of the perpetrator of manslaughter is so grievous to the family of the victim, that he must remove himself to an Ir Miqlat (Galut).”
Jewish tradition abhors being “in-your-face.” Walk humbly before God, not triumphantly. And how many of the numerous Muslim victory monuments are 13 stories tall? This mosque is by no means a Muslim “shtiebel.”
Have we Jews become so legalistic that we can applaud bad manners because it’s “technically allowed”?
Shouldn’t Mayor Bloomberg likewise endorse Etz Chaim’s consitutional rights to its location? After all, how close is too close?
Teaneck
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Print![]() | Teenagers gather at the Chabad-run Charlotte Jewish Day School to help the school get votes in the Kohl’s Cares for Kids online challenge. Photo by CJDS |
Chabad-run groups have done remarkably well in recent years when it comes to online philanthropy contests.
Chabad representatives were well represented in last year’s Jewish Federations of North America Jewish Community Heroes contest. Last January, Chabad’s Michigan-based Friendship Circle, an organization dedicated to helping children with special needs, won $100,000 when it finished third in the Chase Community Giving Challenge on Facebook. Earlier this summer, 17 Chabad programs across the United States each received $20,000 in the second running of the Chase challenge.
And this week, Chabad tooted its horn by publicizing that eight Chabad-run Jewish day schools are poised to win $500,000 each in the Kohl’s Cares for Kids online challenge.
The Kohl’s challenge, much like the others, essentially is a glorified popularity contest in which organizations are allowed to nominate themselves and then solicit votes from their fans and friends. The top vote-getters win a cash prize.
Kohl’s, the prominent department store chain, is giving away $500,000 to the top 20 vote-earning schools — some $10 million in total.
There is nothing overtly Jewish about the Kohl’s challenge — in fact, the contest prohibits winners from using the money for religious purposes — but it was a Polish-Jewish immigrant named Max Kohl who planted the seed for the 1,000-store chain with a small corner grocery store on the south side of Milwaukee in 1927. And as of Aug. 25, a dozen of the top vote-getters in the contest, which ends today, were Jewish day schools. Of those 12, eight are under the auspices of Chabad.
So what is Chabad’s secret?
Skeptics and some competitors have suggested that Chabad uses “bots” to cast thousands of automated votes.
Chabad does have something of an advantage over other Jewish groups, but it’s not an unfair one. The Chabad network, which includes thousands of individual outposts all over the world, has proven powerful during these contests, according to Motti Seligson, a spokesman for Chabad.org who has become Chabad’s social media guru over the past couple of years.
And the movement as a whole has been really good about not cannibalizing its online base. While scores of Chabad organizations may have started out as entrants in the Chase or Kohl’s challenges, the network as a whole figured out pretty quickly which ones had a serious chance of winning and then the system placed its chips on the potential winners. The method has proven to be especially valuable in the Kohl’s challenge, Seligson said.
Each voter can vote a total of 20 times, and only five times for one school. Hypothetically that means if supporters of the Silverstein Hebrew Academy-Great Neck in suburban New York cast votes for the school five times, they each have 15 votes left. So in a system of mutual support designed by the Chabad schools, those original Silverstein voters may then cast five votes each for, say, Chabad Hebrew Academy of San Diego, Cheder Menachem in Los Angeles, and the Rohr Bais Chaya Academy in Tamarac, Fla.
During the Chase challenge, it became clear that the Chabad-affiliated Friendship Circle of Michigan had a shot at winning a prize, so the other 100 Friendship Circle outposts throughout the United States rallied behind their Michigan counterpart.
It’s not cheating or skirting the rules, Seligson said, it’s just actualizing a social network effectively.
“Everything that is created is created for a divine purpose, and the idea is to use everything to make the world a better place and for a higher cause,” he said. “Social media is no different. If there is a way of harnessing that to do a better good, then absolutely do it.”
While not everyone has a Chabad network, there are still some lessons to learn from the group’s tactics. In terms of winning a contest, the number of Facebook friends an organization has will not necessarily translate into votes.
According to Seligson, when the Michigan Friendship Circle placed in the first Chase challenge, it was up against organizations that had up to a half-million Facebook friends. The Friendship Circle started with 600. In the end, though, the organizations with huge followings were fortunate to get 20 percent of their friendship base to vote. Friendship Circle ended up with 60,000 votes.
The key, Seligson said, is that the virtual must be backed up by the real. Social media such as Facebook and Twitter may be good entry points to a relationship or a conversation, he said, but actualizing those relationships takes real-time interaction.
For the Friendship Circle, that meant generating offline press with publicity stunts and face-to-face meetings in the real world. For instance, the group organized an Improv Everywhere-style freeze at a Detroit Pistons game, enlisting 200 volunteers to attend the game and freeze like statues for a minute at a specific time. When the minute was up, the volunteers ripped off their shirts, revealing T-shirts that advertised the group’s website for fans and members of the media to see.
In Charlotte, N.C., Chabad’s 220-student Charlotte Jewish Day School used an inside-out approach to garner 45,000 votes by Aug. 24 and earn 14th place in the Kohl’s challenge, according to spokesman Rabbi Bentzion Groner, director of the Friendship Circle of North Carolina.
The elementary school has a relatively small base, but it tapped into alumni now in their teens to hold a vote-a-thon. The school, which was started in a basement in 1984 with just a couple of students, enlisted 50 teenagers to bring their laptops to the school, where they spent an afternoon reaching out online to as many of their friends as they could, soliciting votes one by one. And of course the school invited in three television stations and the local newspaper to check out the event.
But, Groner said, the school’s success thus far has been about making it a general cause in Charlotte. First, the group worked on acquiring votes from its own base and extended network. When it became clear that the school had a chance to do well, it went after those who care about Jewish education.
It became clear that the school would be the only one in Charlotte — Jewish or non-Jewish — that had a chance to win, so Groner and others went after the broader, non-Jewish Charlotte community.
Groner estimates that about 60 percent of the school’s votes have come from its natural extended base. The rest came from outside.
“We made it about the community,” he said, “and the community really got on board.”
JTA
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PrintOne hallmark of the High Holidays season is the concept of teshuvah, or repentance: the act of acknowledging our flaws and transgressions, of owning up to our errors and dedicating ourselves to self-correction.
It is during this season of reflection and introspection that Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu comes to Washington to engage in direct peace talks with Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas.
In an ideal world, peace in the Middle East would soon be a reality. After more than six decades of war and terrorism, Israel longs for and deserves peace.
But we cannot allow our desire for peace, however great, to obscure the facts that lie before us. If we hope to achieve that elusive peace, we must acknowledge and confront several critical issues. As with the High Holidays, before we can move forward, logic compels us to review and evaluate the past and examine the need for change.
We cannot achieve true repentance without being honest, with ourselves and with God. Engaging in illusions will not work, either in achieving true teshuvah or in achieving true peace in the Middle East. To reach for peace, we must view the political situation through a clear, unobstructed lens and make an honest assessment.
We must review the wars, the terrorist acts and the many casualties Israel has endured since its inception. We must review the fact that Israel consistently has made offers to achieve peace only to be met in return with outrageous demands. We must review the concessions Israel has made in the name of peace and the overwhelmingly negative and painful results that ensued.
We must reflect on the fact that the Palestinians continue to teach and preach hatred of Israel in their schools and in their mosques, lauding “martyrs” who kill our children. We must reflect on the fact that the Palestinians continue to deny Israel’s fundamental right to exist and to inhabit its biblical and historical homeland.
As we welcome the new year, with all its hope and opportunity, we must demand change.
We must call upon Abbas and the Palestinian Authority to disavow the relentless violence that has claimed thousands of innocent Israeli lives. We must insist that the Palestinian leadership denounce calls for Israel’s destruction and recognize Israel’s fundamental right to exist as a sovereign Jewish nation.
Maimonides, the great Torah scholar, wrote the following in his compilation of laws relating to teshuvah: “Although the sounding of the shofar on Rosh Hashanah is a Divine decree, nevertheless we can discern a purpose in doing so. It is as if it tells us: ‘Sleepers! Arise from your slumber, and those who are dozing, awake from your lethargy. Review your actions, repent your sins and remember your Creator!’ ”
The blast of the shofar is a call to action intended to rouse our souls and inspire us to do what is right.
Now is the time for American Jewry to stand up and proudly proclaim that the land of Israel belongs to the Jewish nation. We must insist that Israel’s security is not negotiable. We must continue to demand the release of Gilad Shalit, the captive Israeli soldier who languishes in Gaza. We must demand the cessation of anti-Israel rhetoric and education in mosques and in schools.
American Jews must stand up and be heard on the issues that are vital to the security and survival of the Jewish people and the land of Israel.
It says in the book of Jeremiah, “Peace, peace! But there is no peace!” We may yearn for peace, but we cannot force peace. No true peace will come in the Middle East before the Palestinians have demonstrated their capacity to function as honest, reliable and long-lasting peace partners.
In this season of awe and self-reflection, may the clarion call of the shofar awaken us and inspire us to renew our commitment to the State of Israel and to the safety and well-being of our Jewish brethren, wherever they may be.
While the powerful call of the shofar will certainly reverberate in synagogues throughout the world, may its message echo in our hearts and minds as well. It is a wake-up call we cannot afford to ignore.
JTA
Rabbi Pesach Lerner is the executive vice president of the National Council of Young Israel.
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PrintFrom an essay by Adam Gopnik on Winston Churchill in the Aug. 30 New Yorker:
“There was a fine difference between Stalin and Satan, and Churchill grasped it. …the brutality and waste of the Stalinist regime—prisoners left to die in the snow, political commissars ordering the execution of innocents, the dead of the great purges haunting the whole — is sickening. But the murderousness of the Nazi invaders — children killed en masse and buried in common graves — is satanic. It is the tragedy of modern existence that we have to make such distinctions. Yet that does not mean that such distinctions cannot be made, or that Churchill did not make them. His moral instincts were uncanny. In 1944, after the deportation of the Jews from Hungary, when the specifics of the extermination camps were still largely unknown, he wrote that the Nazis’ war on the Jews would turn out to be ‘probably the greatest and most horrible crime ever committed in the whole history of the world.’”
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PrintThanks everyone for all the great e-mails and messages about my photo with the “Shofar So Good” apron by Davida Aprons (http://www.davidaaprons.com) and for following the “Cooking With Beth” blog. My daughter Rachel, who was married in May, has already laid claim to the new apron. I support her in her efforts for embracing our holiday traditions. We have a date later this week to make honey cake together in her new home.
It is wonderful to know that my fellow http://www.jstandard.com readers are trying some of the recipes and enjoying the blog. Share the site with friends as well. Comments are welcome and I do accept some submissions. In the meantime, enjoy all the holiday preparation and most important, enjoy your families and all the traditions that go along with the holiday. As promised, here are some other recipes for the new year. Shana Tova and a sweet year filled with all good things. Happy cooking!
Brisket for 10
-Hilda Luria
5 pounds first cut brisket-lean (sometimes this has to be special ordered)
1 envelope onion soup mix
roasting pan
foil
*note from Beth—another friend told me she had a similar recipe and adapted it by adding a can of whole cranberries as well
Take two pieces of foil, one horizontal, one vertical and lay brisket in the middle.
Sprinkle the onion soup mix on top, spread it out, and rub it in well. (this is where my friend added a can of whole cranberries)
Cover brisket by folding side of foil, making sure it is sealed tight.
Place new foil in roasting pan the same way you did before and place sealed meat in the new foil as well. Close up the sides well.
Put in oven at 450 degrees for 10 minutes. Drop temperature to 250 degrees for 3 hours.
Open the brisket and look at it. Poke it gently. It should be tender. If it is not, put it back in for another 1/2 hour.
Slice the brisket and let it stay in the pan- covered loosely.
Heat at 350 degrees for another 1/2 hour before serving.
Tzimmes
-Hilda Luria
3 pounds flanken
1 bag baby carrots
1 pound dried apricots
1 box small pitted prunes
4 large sweet potatoes- raw, peeled, and quartered
Cook flanken in a pan on the stovetop and sear on both sides. Cut into small pieces.
Fill large pot 3/4 full with water, enough to cover the ingredients, (not the meat), boil together, and cover.
In about an hour, add the meat.
Pour the mixture into a baking pan, cover, and bake at 350 degrees for about 1 1/2 hours until meat is tender.
Eggplant Rice Pilaf
-Miriam Gray
(Miriam created this vegetarian dish when her daughter was a vegetarian)
1 large eggplant
3 eggs beaten
flavored breadcrumbs
1 box rice pilaf
vegetable oil
2-16 ounce cans tomato sauce
onions
minced garlic
salt, pepper, Italian spices
Wash eggplant before slicing. Slice eggplant lengthwise into thin slices—-1/8-1/4 inch thick
Rinse slices. Dip slices into beaten egg mixture and then cover with breadcrumbs
Brown quickly in skillet in vegetable oil. The eggplant does not have to be cooked through.
Tomato sauce: Sauté onions and minced garlic. When onions are golden brown, add cans of tomato sauce. Add salt, pepper, Italian spices and simmer for 20 minutes. While the sauce is cooking, cook rice pilaf according to directions. Do not overcook. The pilaf should be moist.
Lightly grease a 10x13 inch pyrex dish. Spoon sauce to cover the bottom. Add breaded eggplant to cover. Spread rice pilaf to cover the eggplant and then put another layer of eggplant. Pour the tomato sauce over the top layer. Bake at 350 for 25 minutes. (Glassware has a tendency to cook faster.)
For a dairy meal you can add sliced mozzarella cheese on top of the casserole.
To make another layer, use 2 boxes of rice pilaf and add sauce as you layer the eggplant.
You may want to leave some sauce to add when you serve this.
Potato Knishes
-from Miriam Gray- adapted from Nancy Resman’s recipe
Pepperidge Farm Puff Pastry
potatoes —-use about 3 pounds for both pastry sheets
package of onion soup mix
non-dairy creamer (to make this pareve)
margarine (to make this pareve)
onions
1 egg
salt and pepper to taste
Boil potatoes until ready for mashing. While the potatoes are cooking, set the pastry sheets out to defrost. DO NOT TRY TO HANDLE THEM UNTIL THEY ARE SOFT BECAUSE THEY WILL BREAK IF NOT DEFROSTED. While potatoes are cooking and pastry shell is defrosting, sauté an onion til golden brown. When potatoes are soft, mash with margarine, add non-dairy cream, slowly add one package of soup mix, a tablespoon at a time, tasting as you go. (The soup mix is spicy). Add the onions. Mash until light and fluffy. Use a hand mixer to be sure the batter is well mixed. Add salt and pepper to taste.
Cut pastry shell sheet into squares cutting along the lines of the folds. Fill the bottom with the potato mixture and cover with a matching square for the top. Pull the softened dough so the top piece is larger than the bottom and pinch the sides to seal closed. When all the “knishes” are formed, brush the top with beaten egg and bake at 375 til golden brown.
Baked apples
Aviva Weiner
4 hard red apples cored
1/4 cup raisins
4 tsp. brown sugar
1 cup grape juice (can use any juice, just nothing acidic)
Pecans or walnuts (optional)
Remove a strip of peel from the middle of the apple
Fill the center of each apple with raisins
Top with 1 tsp. brown sugar
Sprinkle with nuts (optional)
Pour grape juice over apple tops
Bake at 350 degrees, uncovered. Check them in about 45 minutes.
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PrintAs I was editing a letter to the editor, I saw that the writer had used the word “haredim” many times — a word that has frequently appeared in the paper this summer in relation to protests over yeshiva budget cuts in Israel and a dispute over segregating a girls’ school.
We don’t italicize foreign words — which mainly means Hebrew and Yiddish words for our paper — because italics are hard to read and certain words appear frequently (witness haredim).
We often define these on first reference, but wonder if that is really necessary for a commonly used word — for example, olim (immigrants). So I am thinking of creating a kind of “wordbook” on this site providing definitions of such words.
Of course, that does not solve the problem of “haredim” (lexicographically, anyway). We used to define them as “ultra-Orthodox,” but people who were Orthodox in other ways objected. Then we used “ultra-observant,” but people who were observant in their own way objected. (You get the drift.) In recent years we used “fervently Orthodox,” but that seems like a clumsy combination of English words, so lately we’ve resorted to, simply, haredim.
We could also call them fundamentalists, right-wing religionists, etc.
Any nominations?
RKB
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Print![]() | From left, Ben Prawer, Shir Michael, Maayan Weiss, and Nis Frome discuss their views on being Jewish. Photos by Joff Jones |
What would you change about the Jewish world? Is it important to marry someone Jewish? What issues face young American Jews today? Seven college students, including myself, discussed these questions at The Jewish Standard’s first annual Teen Rap Session, held at the Glen Rock Jewish Center on Aug. 10.
While the students represented a wide range of opinions, they all said they care deeply about the issues and feel connected to the Jewish community. Still — as one participant suggested — the opinions held by college-age Jews often are unsolicited, or ignored, as the community engages in long-term planning.
The Standard hopes to correct that oversight by convening these students on a regular basis.
This year’s panel participants, ranging from 18 to 20 years old and hailing from both Bergen and Passaic counties, included Michael Cohen (Wayne); Ruben Waldman (Teaneck); and Ben Prawer, Shir Michael, and Nina Follman (Glen Rock). Also from Glen Rock, I led the discussion with my fellow Standard intern Nis Frome of Teaneck.
Jewish identity
Students were asked whether it is important to marry someone Jewish.
“This is something that I’ve been battling with for a long time,” said Prawer, “and I think I’m leaning towards marrying Jewish. I don’t think it’s because I care if my spouse believes in God; I just don’t think I’d feel comfortable raising my kids anything but Jewish.”
He explained that his personal connection to Jewish culture is something he would want his children to experience as well.
For Waldman, “It’s very important to marry someone Jewish, just because I think it’s important to preserve my heritage, my culture, and my traditions as a Jew. For that reason,” he said, “I would only be comfortable raising my kids Jewish if I knew that I had a Jewish spouse to raise them with.”
“I don’t think you have to marry someone Jewish, necessarily,” Shir Michael countered. “I think its more about the person wanting to understand the culture, learn the culture, and if they’re willing to do that, then I think its acceptable to marry someone who isn’t Jewish,” she said.
Cohen agreed, adding that it was “more of a cultural thing than a religious thing. To me, being Jewish is about celebrating the holidays, coming together as a family … and in order to preserve that, I think it’s easier to ‘keep it in the faith.’”
All agreed that Jewish culture is something they want to preserve in their future family lives, and that more often than not, it’s easier to form an instant bond with other Jews than with people of other groups.
The Israel connection
Of the seven forum participants, six have traveled to Israel on more than one occasion. They discussed family trips, Birthright Israel opportunities, and what it means to feel a connection to Israel.
Cohen, who was born in Israel and lived there until he was 11, said that Israel would always be a “second home” to him. And Waldman, who has visited Israel many times, said, “Anytime I have the opportunity, I just jump on that plane and go.”
“I didn’t really understand this whole ‘homeland’ talk,” Prawer admitted, but when he got the chance go on a Birthright trip, he made his own discovery, he said. He noted that “in a country just about the size of New Jersey,” he and many others from his group saw people they knew just walking down the street.
“That could never happen with any other religion, in any other country — it will only happen to Jews, in Israel,” he said, “and that was just something so special and fascinating to me that I really felt a connection when I went.”
Follman said that she had not yet been to Israel, but she has heard so many positive stories about her friends’ experiences there that she hopes to go on Birthright soon.
Following the news
All the participants shared an interest in Israeli politics and a desire to keep up with news of the region.
Cohen suggested that what is best for Israel is also what is best for Jews living in America.
He acknowledged that although Israel should be a top priority, America does have other concerns it has to deal with.
“Many Americans need to realize that Israel is America’s only ally in the Middle East, and that we can’t lose that connection,” he said. “Jews are a big part of American politics and American life, so I think America really needs to build upon that relationship.”
Michael said that she “always believed the connection between America and Israel hasn’t been strong enough” and that the reason Jewish American teens in particular may not be as involved is because “no one is teaching them how to connect with Israel.” In order to bridge this divide, she suggested that teens, and even children, should be more exposed to everyday life in Israel.
Aside from its relationship to America, Israel often features in the media spotlight. “Every once in a while I’ll check on haaretz.com or The Jerusalem Post just to get a more informed notion,” Waldman said. “I think there’s a definite problem with at least American and European media in showing both sides of the story, with issues pertaining to Israel.”
“Surprisingly,” he added, “I’ve read more than a few articles from Israeli news sources that don’t paint Israel in a flattering way.”
In response to those who claim that American Jews “blindly support” Israel, he said that Israel “isn’t infallible” and that it, too, can make mistakes. Still, he added, it’s important to support it in all the good that it accomplishes, “and it does a lot of good.”
Many people try to gain a fuller understanding of the Arab-Israeli conflict from the news, but “people have to be careful where they get their news from,” Cohen said. “Unfortunately, the media is not pure facts.”
“A lot of people are really pro-Israel,” Prawer said, speaking of his family and members of the Jewish community at his school. But, he added, there are also a lot of people who are firmly anti-Israel at his school.
“I wish I had a better picture of the whole story,” he added. Before he left on his Birthright trip, a goal of his was to learn as much as he could about the regional conflict. However, describing himself as very “sheltered,” he said he regretted that he wasn’t able to do so.
Responding to anti-Semitism
One issue that strongly resonated with the students was anti-Semitism, a topic they introduced themselves during the discussion.
“Hearing words that weren’t around me when I was younger,” Michael said of her first year on campus, was something that was “very difficult to adjust to.”
Cohen recalled Israeli Apartheid Week — a politically charged event held at Boston University last year. He said it made him feel uncomfortable, mostly because it was partially funded by the university itself, and, by extension, his own undergraduate fees.
At the same time, said another participant, a college campus is unique in that it can, in an educational way, present numerous viewpoints, beliefs, and opinions.
“It’s healthy to have the debate,” Prawer said. “I think it’s really important to have a lot of different views [on campus]…. I would feel uncomfortable,” he added, “if it was all pro-Israel.”
Sense of community
The participants spoke about their involvement in the Jewish community, both as children and young adults.
One of the biggest differences Cohen noticed when he moved to the United States was the way he and his family expressed their Judaism.
“In Israel, Judaism is all around you,” he said. He didn’t go to synagogue services, for example, because he didn’t feel the need.
“But when I moved here,” he explained, “I realized that I had to seek out Judaism.”
“I think it really depends on where you are in the country,” Prawer added, “and what type of institution you’re in…. Once I got to college there was a lot more outreach.”
As the two participants who are only just entering college, Follman and Waldman explained how the Jewish community played a role in their college decision-making process.
Waldman was impressed with the outreach on his campus when he visited the University of Pennsylvania.
“I would definitely love to be a part of that,” he said. “I think Hillel and organizations like it are a great way for Jews on campus to be in touch, and I definitely see myself taking a role in that.”
Follman was also impressed by the Jewish community at her future campus, but explained that her involvement won’t change just because there is an active Hillel.
“It was definitely part of my decision to choose Boston University, because it had such a strong Jewish presence,” she added. “It’s just really great to be with all other people that ‘get’ you.”
Being Jewish
What do they love most about being Jewish?
“The food!” Prawer exclaimed, as the others agreed enthusiastically.
“The culture, coming together with the family for Rosh HaShanah, having a big dinner, and celebrating each other,” Cohen added, “It’s a lot about the family.”
“You can find a Jew anywhere, pretty much, and just be able to talk to them, and be able to connect to them immediately…. That’s really my favorite part,” Waldman said.
Being able to stand out as a minority is one of Follman’s favorite aspects about being Jewish.
“We’re not only a minority,” Prawer reminded everyone. “We’re a minority that has had a disproportionate amount of success in the world.”
“We’re a minority with a large presence,” Cohen added.
On the flip side, Michael pointed out that sometimes it’s difficult for her to deal with people who do not understand Judaism.
“Some other people don’t understand the culture, and they judge it very quickly,” she said.
Cohen also acknowledged “preconceived notions about Jews and the Jewish religion,” but said that if anything, these judgments and perceptions were just something he’d like to educate others about, showing them “what the Jewish religion is all about.”
On changing the Jewish world
“One thing I’d like to see is a little more dialogue,” Waldman said. “I think the Jewish community is suffering from some real fragmentation…. There are a lot of issues in the news, inter-Jewish issues about all kinds of things, and just to get everybody to sit down and talk would be beneficial to everybody.”
Cohen agreed, adding that he thinks that in order to move forward, “We need to learn how to be one.”
“I wish there was a general understanding that you can ‘be Jewish’ without ‘being Jewish,’” Prawer said. He stressed the importance of embracing Jewish traditions in one’s own way. “There’s such a rich culture that I think everyone can benefit from, and appreciate, and you don’t necessarily need to follow all of the rules or believe everything the religion says you should believe in.”
Following the discussion, members agreed — in Michael’s words — that “everyone has something different to say, and sometimes we agree, sometimes we disagree, but in the end, just to have the conversation is important.”
“I think I gained a reassurance from this,” said Cohen. While “others have the same views as me, and some others don’t … we are still connected, and share very similar beliefs.”
A full video presentation of the forum, in 6 parts, can be found on our website.
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 1
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 2
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 3
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 4
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 5
First Annual Jewish Teen Rap Session, Part 6
![]() | Shir Michael, top left, Nis Frome, and Ruben Waldman. Ben Prawer, bottom left, Maayan Weiss, Michael Cohen, and Nina Follman. |
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PrintThe discovery of swastika graffiti in Fort Lee by a local teen this week put the Anti-Defamation League’s revised definition of the hate symbol to the test.
The teen’s mother, who asked to remain anonymous, called the police Tuesday to the scene near McCloud Avenue where her daughter had discovered the swastikas painted on a large rock and a utility pole. On Wednesday she called The Jewish Standard and the Anti-Defamation League’s New Jersey region.
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“I am concerned,” she said. “I do see it more and more. We never experienced anything (anti-Semitic) until the past couple of years.”
The woman told the Standard that her daughter has been the target of anti-Semitic remarks at her school and has seen swastikas on blackboards and desks. She praised the school’s response to the incidents, but said anti-Semitism remains a concern for the family.
“It does exist and my daughter has experienced it,” she said.
The police were swift in their response, the woman said.
Though the swastika, for many, symbolizes the Nazi ideology that brought forth the Holocaust, the Anti-Defamation League recently changed its criteria for determining whether a swastika incident is also an anti-Semitic incident.
“Based on some of the circumstances, we would consider this to be an anti-Semitic incident,” said Etzion Neuer, director of New Jersey’s ADL office. “We received a call from a resident who was upset by it. That automatically puts it in that category.”
When the ADL released its annual Audit of Anti-Semitic Incidents last month, it redefined how it would approach the swastika.
![]() | Etzion Neuer, director of New Jersey’s Anti-Defamation League, says context determines whether swastika graffiti are anti-Semitic or general symbols of hate. File photo |
“We know that the swastika has, for some, lost its meaning as the primary symbol of Nazism and instead become a more generalized symbol of hate,” ADL National Director Abraham Foxman said at the time. “So we are being more careful to include graffiti incidents that specifically target Jews or Jewish institutions as we continue the process of re-evaluating and redefining how we measure anti-Jewish incidents.”
New Jersey, with 132 anti-Semitic incidents, ranked third in the nation, behind California, with 275, and New York, with 209. There had been 238 incidents in 2008.
“The symbol on its own begs for some detail,” Neuer said. He cited a case earlier this month in Long Island where a Latino family discovered a swastika painted on their door.
“The swastika is always going to be considered a symbol of hate, but it’s not always directed against Jews,” he said. “The challenge is to determine motive. So while the swastika is always a symbol of hate, what we’re seeing is it’s not always directed against Jews.”
“We don’t know who [the swastika] was geared toward,” the Fort Lee woman said in response to the ADL’s announcement. “When you see that, [anti-Semitism is] honestly the first thing you think of. I don’t know what [else] to think of it.”
Neuer told the Standard later on Wednesday that Fort Lee police had informed him that the graffiti had been there for about a year. The ADL intended to follow up as to why the graffiti had been allowed to remain for so long.
Calls to the Fort Lee Police Department Wednesday were not returned.
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One year ago the YM-YWHA of Greater Clifton-Passaic celebrated its grand reopening, and the dedication of a newly renovated half-million-dollar playground. One month ago the Jewish Federation of Greater Clifton-Passaic, facing budget deficits and major drops in its fund-raising campaign in recent years, decided to sell the Y, a 105-year-old institution and the only Jewish community center in the Passaic-Clifton area.
The Y, also known as the Tri-County JCC, houses the federation, Jewish Family Service, the Riskin Children’s Center, and the Holocaust Resource Center. Federation leaders say they intend that these agencies would remain open after the sale of the building but remained noncommittal about Y programming beyond September 2011. The Y still expects to offer camp for the summer of 2011.
The board voted to sell the building at its July meeting and put the building on the market later that month. Community members did not learn about the move, however, until they received a letter in early August.
“The decision has been brewing for several years,” Ed Schey, the federation’s executive director, told this newspaper last week. “It became very difficult these past several years to maintain the services we want to at the Y. We just don’t have the wherewithal to continue.”
He pointed to a diminishing donor base as the result of a donor’s death or relocation out of state. Late donors’ families often don’t continue the tradition of contributing, he said, while those who move away shift their dollars to local charities.
The changing demographics of Passaic — the city has experienced a boom in its Orthodox population in recent years and is home to 10 Orthodox synagogues, while Clifton has one Conservative shul — has also played a role. While Y leaders estimated at least 50 percent of the Y’s users are Orthodox, the federation has not been successful in fund-raising in that community.
Ten years ago, the federation’s campaign raised more than $1 million. Schey would not provide specifics but said the campaign today is about half of that. According to 2008 tax forms, the latest on file with the website Guidestar.org, the federation collected $5,162,965 in total revenue between Oct. 1, 2007, and Sept. 30, 2008, but faced expenses of $5,583,671 — a deficit of more than $400,000.
Just to open the doors of the Y — paying for electricity, heating, and other basic needs — costs approximately $600,000 a year, according to the Y’s executive director, Kenneth Mandel. With the federation facing a $1.5 million budget deficit, he said he was saddened by the decision but understood it.
“I look at this building and say this is a community asset,” he said. “By selling this building you’re never going to be able to have a building like this again.”
The Y has approximately 1,300 members including family units, and Mandel estimated that about 1,000 people pass through the doors each day. This year’s summer camp is at capacity, with 600 children enrolled.
The Y’s operating budget is $2.7 million; it receives $178,000 from the federation and the rest is raised from other sources. Each year the staff wonders if that will be the final year, Mandel said, but various grants and last-minute donations have kept the building afloat. The Y staff took a 10 percent pay cut last year, representing a savings of $200,000, Mandel said.
The federation had looked at merging with one of its neighboring federations, but plans to merge with the Jewish Federation of North Jersey in Wayne fell apart when that organization merged with the UJA of Bergen County & North Hudson to form UJA Federation of Northern New Jersey. From 2002 to 2008 the Passaic-Clifton federation held conversations with the United Jewish Communities of MetroWest, but those talks eventually broke down.
“We didn’t want to be in a position next September to say, ‘We’re closing tomorrow,’” said Mark Levenson, who concluded his eight-year presidency of the Passaic-Clifton federation in June. “We have been deliberating for a long time to come to what I call a soft landing.”
The 7-acre property went on the market last month, Levenson said, although he would not disclose the asking price or the broker.
The federation is not shutting down, Levenson emphasized, acknowledging rumors that followed the sale’s announcement.
“The campaign will continue; what federation does will continue,” he said. “We are not closing the federation. The federation absolutely is in control and the implementer of this decision.”
The federation board is open to ideas to save the Y, Levenson said, but only a large infusion of dollars will work.
“Unless there is some real concrete plan of real funding to help address the gap in keeping the building going, good intentions just don’t get us there,” he said. “We need actual real cash to keep the building going.”
When Mitch Morrison, a Passaic resident who is vice president and group editor of CSP Information Group, received the federation’s letter, he quickly began to mobilize efforts to save the Y.
As of Monday, when he spoke to this paper from a business meeting in Utah, he had been trying to organize a meeting with federation leaders for the end of this week. An initial e-mail asking people for help has attracted lots of attention, he said, and he’d like the federation to examine all options from the community.
“Let’s pause,” he said. “Let’s take a deep breath and let’s regroup and see if we can create a model that is truly representative of a broader Jewish community and can we do it under a financial model that not only allows the institution to survive but to thrive.”
Passaic has experienced a demographic change, not a demographic decline, Morrison said. That separates the Passaic-Clifton Y from other agencies in decline across the country. He envisions new models of operation and outreach for the Y that bring in the Orthodox, the Russian émigre´s, the non-affiliated, and Jews from smaller communities nearby.
“If you take the attitude of ‘let’s rebuild this from scratch, what kind of fund-raising model could you create,’ you could potentially create something very dynamic and robust,” he said.
Schey said that the federation would negotiate with a buyer to see if Jewish Family Service, the Riskin Children’s Center, and the Holocaust Resource Center could stay in the building. Whether the federation ends up renting space back from a buyer or if the building will be razed depends on who buys it, he said.
“The executive committee of the federation and board of trustees of the federation will review carefully all of the proposals and make a decision that’s in the best interest of the Jewish community of Clifton-Passaic,” he added.
Edith Sobel, the former editor of the Jewish Community News, praised the federation and its relationship with the paper when the JCN was housed at the Y.
“It was a very wonderful experience for me,” she said.
Valerie Sharfman, director of the Holocaust Resource Center, declined comment.
Jewish Family Services receives $125,000, or about 10 percent of its annual budget, from the federation, which has been “a pretty secure funder,” said Esther East, executive director of Jewish Family Service.
“We are very saddened by the fact that the financial difficulties have resulted in this loss,” she said. “We’re losing the one communal institution in the Clifton-Passaic community where Jewish people cross-denominationally come together. That’s a big loss.”
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