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Athletes head to the Maccabiah

Field hockey is a family affair

 
 
 

Mim Chappell-Eber heard the 50,000 fans cheering as the U.S. team walked into Ramat Gan Stadium for the opening ceremonies of the 2005 Maccabiah Games, the members in their red, white, and blue making a circle around the field.

It was the fourth Maccabiah for Chappell-Eber, the coach of the women’s field hockey team and a former player. But this time she was accompanied by her daughter, Ariel Eber, the team’s goalie.

“Representing the country with her was a great bonding experience,” says Chappell-Eber, who made her Maccabiah debut as a sweeper in 1993, then returned for the ‘97 Games as a player-coach. “It’s not often you get to coach your children in a setting like that representing your country.”

“Overwhelming and exciting” is how Ariel Eber remembers the moment.

Mother and daughter will return to Ramat Gan Stadium for the July 13 opening of the 18th Games as part of the 900-member U.S. contingent.

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Ariel Eber recalls her first Maccabiah Games opening ceremonies, in 2005, as “overwhelming and exciting.” QuickStix

Eber, 26, of Westfield, will be in goal again for her coach/mom as the United States tries to improve on its bronze medal performance from ’05. She is the only returning player from the U.S. squad.

Chappell-Eber, 54, of Plainfield, says this year’s unit is the most talented she has guided at a Maccabiah.

“There are no high school players; they’re all in college or out of college,” she says. “We have a former under-21 national player and a national indoor team player” — her daughter.

“If we keep our heads, I do my job and they do their job, we’ll win gold.”

Chappell-Eber, who is married to a Tel Aviv native, and Eber say the mother-daughter relationship is no problem on the field.

“It’s no different than playing for anyone else,” says Eber, a former all-conference performer at the University of Vermont. “On the field I don’t think of her as Mom, I think of her as my coach and treat her the same as any other coach I have.”

Mom offers the same line.

“I reward her and punish her just like anyone else,” Chappell-Eber says. “I try not to be harder on her than anyone else. I’ve had to cut her from teams.”

Besides the on-field relationship, the two bring another unique perspective: They are black Jews. Chappell-Eber converted 27 years ago, though she says that living in Brooklyn in an apartment building with many Orthodox Jews, she “always felt Jewish.”

“You go to the Maccabiah Games, with 62 countries, you don’t just see the Ashkenazi Jews you see in America,” she says. “Indians, South Americans — every country that has Jews in it, they’re all there.

“Me being a black American and being a little different from Jewish white America, it’s great to see the differences. So often in the United States you just think of one type of Jew.”

Eber recalls from the ‘05 trip, “Near Netanya where we stay, you tell them you’re with the Maccabiah, they get so excited, they don’t care what color you are.”

JTA

 

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At 33, nearing the end of a career that includes seven Olympic medals, Lezak figured this might be his last opportunity to make his Maccabiah debut.

Lezak, whose record-setting anchor in the 400-meter freestyle relay propelled the United States to gold in the 2008 Summer Olympics, acknowledged it was a tough decision.

“It came to a point where if I’m going to do it, now is the time,” he said.

 
 

From Knoxville to Ramat Gan

Bruce Pearl’s coaching credentials finally caught up with his desire to lead the U.S. men’s open basketball team at the Maccabiah Games.

Four years guiding the University of Tennessee team, along with hugely successful tenures at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and the Division II University of Southern Indiana, put him over the top for a spot he says he’s wanted for 20 years.

“Other more accomplished coaches coached our team,” said Pearl, 49, who earned National Coach of the Year honors in 2008. “[Maccabi USA] has known for years this is something I wanted to do.”

 
 
 
 
 
 
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